do you think when a woman says no it mean no?(rape)
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
November 9, 2008 4:15pm CST
you heard the saying she only said no once but no means no wether its once are 10 times.you hear she should not have worn what she had on then she would not have been raped.since when what you have on determine if you get raped are not.no mean no when a woman is engaged in kissing a guy at anytime she can say no he suppose to stop how do you feel about this.
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10 responses
@eddie42 (270)
• United States
9 Nov 08
no mean no when what you wear should determine if you get raped are not it don,t make no different if she said no once are 100 times no mean no rape is rape it no excuse for the action of a rapist. i know and understand how people feel but what if you didn,t wear the right clothes is it ok for you to get raped because of clothes you wear.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Nov 08
what you wear have no factor if that woman gets raped or not rape is rapr and no mean no bottom line.a lot people feel she bring her rape on by what she have on this is not true every man should have control of himself.we see a lot in this world we don,t just go out in take it because we want it.thanks for sharing
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
14 Nov 08
No definitely means no. I have heard some rude insensitive guys saying that if a woman dresses a certain way she asks for it even if she says no. it's sad but some guys think that if a girl says no then she is just playing games. But either way no means no and if a guy pushes and rapes a girl then she has EVERY right and SHOULD turn him in and have his butt in jail!
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I fight my attacker and I couldn't feel stronger than I did then.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
15 Nov 08
thats so true fight his butt because even the bibles says you should scream as loud as you can and fight your attacker
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
14 Nov 08
you remember the movie the accused so was dressed a certain but the fact she kept saying no .they did not listen so no mean no she finally won her case after she had to fight for it.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Nov 08
especially if he go all the way and she have said no a man does have to respect when a woman says no it means no don,t get caught up just because you are excited it could mean the rest of that mans life.thank you for sharing
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Nov 08
I do believe that a no means no and men should respect women and vice versa. I am totally against rape and women meeting a man for the first time should do so in a public place where it is less risky.
© ronaldinu 2008
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
14 Nov 08
you are right no do means no her clothes should not determine if he rapes her are not in that case a lot women will be raped in that case because the way they are making these clothes is very revealing but this is no excuse to rape anyone at all.
@pratyushtamhankar (859)
• India
12 Nov 08
You r right annjilena.NO DOES MEAN NO.
I mean if the clothes are so provocative then there's the law to handle it,isn't there ?
I dont think that a girl should be sexually abused on grounds of scanty clothing.
Then rapists would first make their victims' clothin scanty and then rape them saying that it wasn't his fault that her clothes were provocative.Utter crap.
NO MEANS NO !
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
14 Nov 08
wether she says it a 100 times are a 1000 no mean no he has to respect how she feels if she don,t want to sleep with him.we can go out and take anything how do they think they can take a woman most prize part of her body without her saying yes don,t what she says matter it,s her body no mean no thank you for sharing
@MizzLadyB08 (1174)
• United States
10 Nov 08
Of course no means no...no matter how many times she said it. Some guys just do not get the word no. I have never been raped and i can imagina what goes on through the woman mind when it is happening. Its just wrong.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Nov 08
wether she says it a 100 times are a 1000 no mean no he has to respect how she feels if she don,t want to sleep with him.we can go out and take anything how do they think they can take a woman most prize part of her body without her saying yes don,t what she says matter it,s her body no mean no thank you for sharing
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
9 Nov 08
I wish everyone would think like you do but unfortunately many people don't
@babyfirefighter (568)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I wish that more people will see it the way you do. I dont think that it matters what you wear. No female wants to be raped. I know i dont. Some people dont get it. Leave the female alone. If they say no that should be the end of it.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Nov 08
thats true but the majority feel a woman asks for it by clothes she wears thats not true this has no barren on why a woman gets raped no mean no point blank.thanks for sharing
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Nov 08
especially if he go all the way and she have said no a man does have to respect when a woman says no it means no don,t get caught up just because you are excited it could mean the rest of that mans life.thank you for sharing
