Why are some people lucky with LOVE and others aren't??

United States
November 9, 2008 4:35pm CST
I'm confused how some people tend to find the person of their dreams and live happily ever after. Then others never seem to find the right person. I have friends that want to be in love and can't find a quality relationship. How does one find true love??
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
I don't really have any idea.. I'm also thinking same question many times already and still no one could answer that question.. Well, based on my point of view I think the reason why some people are very lucky with Love and others are not maybe because those people who are lucky had found the destined man/woman for them while others are had not yet met their true love.. Sometimes, people tend to think that when their hearts beat fast and they felt something that they didn't felt it before they were thinking that that they are already in love and that is already true love without thinking it very hard and trying to feel it very hard for him/her to know if that's really true love.. I believe that people are very weak when it comes to love because they were going to sacrifice and give up everything just to see the one they love happy and to be with him/her even though it is hard and impossible.. I think the reason why others don't find their true love or not lucky with love it is because they don't know how to love their self first and keeps on surrendering their hearts and soul to the one they love without realizing that person don't truly madly in love with you the way you are to him/her..
• China
10 Nov 08
in general ,we were born in different small land,enve thought as we grow up and extend the living environment and social contact ,we are still boxed into little room in comparison with the whole world. one's limited living space is bound to constrain his life style including seeking after his life partner. maybe you are an attractive and rich guy ,but that dosenot mean you are lucky enough to have the opportunity for holding hands with the girl in your dream. love is destined to be arranged by god.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
9 Nov 08
there is no tried and true way of doing this, it depends on the couple, a lot has to do with maturity and if he either or both partners are ready for a real relationship at exactly the same time, and if here is some kind of physical attraction to take it away from a real good friend to a life partner.
• United States
9 Nov 08
That is the 100 thousand question right there. I wonder the same exact thing. I am not trying to toot my own horn but I am a pretty decent person to be with. But for some reason the past couple of long relationships i've had ended badly. I would love to know how Mary can meet Steve and they end up getting married and having children and a wonderful life, but Linda can meet John and it doesn't work, then she meets craig and that doesn't work not to mention the others in between who just wanted the wam, bam thank you mam! Life is something else I tell ya! Take care and God bless