Do you think that saying sorry is enough when you hurt someone?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
November 9, 2008 6:55pm CST
For me sorry is not enough especially when I know that I really hurt someone. I still cope up and show to my actions I'm really sorry for what I did. What about you guys? Have a nice day!
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9 responses
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
10 Nov 08
To ay you are sorry is admitting you were wrong. What else can they do to make up for it?? Would you like a monetary compensation?? I think sorry is enough in most cases if its not a really bad thing. Other wise they should suffer the consequnces of their actions. If it something small like they called you a name. Then saying sorry is about all they can do to correct it. They cant go back and change what they did. But you both can move forward and you can accept the apology if they have asked for it. If they are truley sorry they have learned a lesson and will not fo it again.But we should alwys give them a chance to prove themselves. Forgiveness is part of the healing process.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Sory for the late reply yes that is very true with what you said. Forgiveness is part of the healing process, and we should always give them a chance to prove themselves. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling thanks! God bless!
• United States
1 Jan 09
this is the gayest blog i have ever seen, dont you people have lives not involving the dianamics of apologies, go out into the world and use your energy to be constuctive, this is honestly the dumbest thing i have ever seen, hope you feel good about yourselves.
• United States
15 Nov 08
If you have done something you feel is wrong then yes you should say I am sorry. Saying I am sorry shows that you understand that what you did or said was wrong. Many times this is all you can do to try and get the forgiveness of the one you hurt. Once you have said you are sorry show that you are by not making the same mistake again.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
When you say your sorry it really comes from the heart,and you mean it. Keep on smiling God bless!
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
11 Nov 08
i dont think so. i think people need to prove it with actions more.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Actions speaks louder then words. Me too you said it right they have to prove it more on their actions then words what they causes pains and hurts to us! Good morning!
• India
11 Nov 08
I personally think that a genuine sincere sorry (if you realise the potential of your action) may be considered. It is really an additional plus if you show it by your honest actions as well. I know friends who will buy you the biggest of I am Sorry Archies card and the next day on engage in the same backbiting as before.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Your right! Good morning!
@SexyEve (29)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Sorry is not enough for some people because they felt betrayed and as we all know, Trust is hard to earn,once you lose it....its gone forever. Once you say sorry to someone you must show that person that you really mean it.It helps to say "I will do anything you want me to...please forgive me". But saying this means you have to be ready to do whatever she or he wants you to.You also have to pray for that person to make it easier for her or him to forgive you. Goodluck!!!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Sometimes this people doesn't care for their mistakes and never learn from this mistakes by hurting and causing alot of pains. It is easy to say sorry, but it should really come from the heart and they really mean it. Thanks keep on smiling! God bless!
@anjanabs (127)
• India
11 Nov 08
i thought that sorry is enough for every mistakes. but some one did some thing unfair to me and he said sorry to me.but i couldnt accept it.that day i understood that sorry is not eough for everything.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
It depends on the hurts and pains they causes to you or anyone else. It's easy to accept the sorry but to forget it's very hard. It takes time to heal the pains and the hurts. Thanks keep on smiling! God bless!
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
10 Nov 08
Sometimes it is all you can do. It may not be enough. But it is a start. And better than nothing. Or worse, not really being sorry.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Sorry for the late reply. For me it's enough you accepted your mistakes and say sorry and you really mean it.Thanks Keep on smiling! God bless!
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
I guess I cannot add to what you have said... it really doesn't say all with just a single phrase "I AM SORRY" and as we all know... ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER than words and it i simple as it is possibly be but hard to do for most of the people. SIGH... if many would just realize this. :)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
I know were not all perfect. People hurts us and we also hurt them. But we should realized that we should accept our mistakes and ask for sorry or an apology. Time heals all wounds. Sorry for the late reply, thanks keep on smiling! God bless!
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
10 Nov 08
It's easy to say sorry to someone but it's hard to tell if you meant it or you're just saying it. I believe that saying sorry and showing remorse will make it better when you hurt someone.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Saying sorry is not enough you have to mean really your sorry for what you did, and it comes from the heart. Don't do to others what others wont do unto you. I just believe on that saying. Thanks keep on smiling! God bless!