NEED UR SUGGESTION:What should i do after waiting for him 2 years?
By 413910289
@413910289 (7)
China
November 9, 2008 9:34pm CST
We began to know each other more than 3 years ago.As members of a cycling association,we went out travelling every weekend and fell in love with each other soon.In the winnter of 2006,I persuaded him entering the service,and i promised him:"you got my words---i'll be right here waiting for you.two years is not a big deal."Two years has passed away when i'm here,but he is there.Now he is coming back home.Unexpectedly,we quarraled much more frequently.I realise i'm becoming so impatient on him,and usually it is I who invent the gunpower.Sometimes i think maybe we have reached the end and should break up,and this idea tortures me a lot because i still love him.I really get confused what makes me like this?What should i do after 2-year-waiting-time?
4 responses
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
just wait for a while until he gets back and then decide on what you two really like, dont rush into things that would hurt you so much and samewith your boyfriend...maybe the relationship is just lacking presence of one another...things would be different if he gets back believe me, talk to him and the communication is the right key for the two of you!!it happens to me and the communication really did a big helpon us!!happy lotting,,,and i too is excited for the outcome of the meeting...
by the way welcome to mylot community hope you enjoy it here as much as we do!!
@413910289 (7)
• China
10 Nov 08
:-)i will tell you how about the meeting and our relationship after the meeting.
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
thank you, im wishing for the best on you two, and thank you for sharing it with us here, just dont rush things and before you know it everything is all fine and smoothly sailing...take care!!and stay pretty for him to be enchanted with you!!
@madekun (70)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 08
My suggestion,don't make a fast decision that you will be regret about later. Yes, as Carmel said, you two need an honest communication and conversation. Talk to each other. Maybe he faced something that make his focus on you was falling off and you don't know.
But,if after talk to each other with an honest conversation, and you found that he is not interesting in make longer connection with you again, maybe it's time to take decision to find another one.
@DonnyBrav (78)
• United States
10 Nov 08
You made a promise and you should keep it or... YOU DON'T LOVE HIM LIKE YOU SAY... in which case... END IT NOW
