Suggestions requierd... For My friends love
By shadowkeeper
@shadowkeeper (48)
India
November 9, 2008 10:37pm CST
i have a friend she was in love with a guy they both were so much in love that they never hurted each others feelings if the guys says that he do not like this thing then the girl would never do it and the same vice versa used to go on when they were together.. but now since they are staying away from each other, they have regular contacts. but now the guy gets angry every now and then. she even do not know the cause why he gets angry. she thinks that it might be some family problems the boy might be facing, but now a days he is scolding her very very much. she tries to cool him but he never listen instead of that he feel that the girl is betraying him, he always tell her that all his problems is coming because of her he do not want her any more in her life, but on the other day he says sorry for scolding her. she is in such a confusion that what is he up to.
need some suggestion mylotters
1 response
@bestblackgirl (88)
• United States
10 Nov 08
I think that he is depressed about something. Because I go through the same thing, when I am depressed I put all my frustrations and I start being mean to my boyfriend for absolutely no reason. Like your friend, me and my boyfriend talks to each other about everything, and we respect each other's wishes.. like if he doesnt want me to do something or go somewhere, i wont and vice versa...But at times I get depressed, I dont want to tell him the reason mostly because I dont want him to start feeling depressed if he cant help me with the problems I am having. So I think she should definetly look into that. But he does love her, it's just that when depressed some people lash out on their loved ones,without meaning to do it. So there is definetly something he's depressed about he doesnt want her to know.
@shadowkeeper (48)
• India
11 Nov 08
well if this is the case then i will tell her to just calm down when ever he is angry on her coz if 2 people get angry at the same time then there will be nothing left in their love.. thanks for your suggestion bestblackgirl...
