have you ever felt being left alone? how do you handle your insecurities?

hello sheenmadness, I am here again. I do feel what you felt sheen. I felt all alone last week during my birthday. I felt all alone and think that no one really loves me including my husband. What I did is try to look at the bright side. I still think I'm very lucky because God has given me many blessings.

Hello sheenmadness. Long time no see. I am so sorry that you have had such a feeling of being left alone that you feel insecure. I think that you may try to take more activities either in sports or in recreational activities. This way you are sure to feel much better as you will make some new friends and the feeling of being left alone will be gradually gone. Good luck to you and take care, my dear friend.

Sometimes i felt like that especially when i am with my friends, my friends are all married and they have their own family and i am the only one left being single and available.I feel like their is something wrong with me, i dont know what it is honestly. what i do is not to hang out with my friends often for i just feel jealous. I like to be with my cyber friend sand do chatting or mylotting to ease to loneliness i felt.

Hey girl, how were you able to overcome it the first time? Doesn't it work now? Anyway, if you're a spiritual person, prayers do help. I do this all the time esp when I feel like all my friends are busy with their lives and i've no one to talk to. Personally, this is more effective than "dial-a-friend" ;-) 'coz God is sure available 24/7. :D However, if you're not that type of person... just try to think of the good times, try to recall something that you find funny or engage in something (a new book, watching TV /DVDs..comedy movies ) that can bring that smile back on your face. I know, easier said done. I've had those moments too. I guess no one will be more than able to help you than yourself. You just have to fight whatever negative feelings you have right now. Regarding your insecurities... I believe that we are all born with flaws. Nobody's perfect, right? Try not to dwell on your negative traits but give emphasis on the positive. Wish you well, friend.