backstabbers

In way it does make you a backstabber. What you should be doing is getting them both together and saying ok lets talk this out. And let them both know that you are not taking one side over the other and you want them to work things out because you cannot deal with one talking about the other because it makes you feel a certain way. Honestly if you do this then you don't have to be in the middle of them and maybe they can work out their differences. And if that doesn't work then you tell them both that you just don't want to hear it anymore. SO then you don't feel like you are talking behind the others back. Just Say No I don't want to hear about it. Hope this helps. Good luck. And honestly if they will talk about each other behind each others backs, don't you think they will talk about you behind your back.

I know how you feel.. I was on that same situation when i HAD TO LISTEN to his guy friend of mine who was saying things behind this girl friend of mine whom he was inlove with.. He was in despair and I had to make him stop crying because I thought he really needs my help.. Sad part is when I had enough of this girl from nagging me to I had to blurt out everything he told me because I had enough and she was hurt because deep inside her she knows that what I am saying is true.. She was so mad she even nagged that guy friend who was the reason why we had that fight and this guy person was also mad at me. For me I'm not the one who started it.. I just want her to shut up and try not to take over my life. her life is a wreck anyway so I just wished that I followed my parents advice not to stick with her..