Do you find it creepy when people call their lovers their "Mommy or Daddy"?

I guess it is normal after the couple is married for a period of time and they already have a kid. Cos when they have a kid, they are constantly referring to the wife in front of the kid as Mommy and the reverse is true. "Tell daddy you want ..." "Go ask mommy if you can..." And parents usually refrain from calling each other other names in front of the kid cos the kid will mimic it and call daddy "darling" or mommy "honey". Over the years, as the kid grows, this "Mommy" and "daddy" terms of endearment replaces the ones that they used to call each other before the kid. And it sticks. SO it is not surprising to hear married couples calling each other Mommy or Daddy.

My ex used to call me "mom" and I so hated it. I never looked at it as incestuous but seriously between us...we had 6 kids. They all lived with us....i was the "mom" to all 4 of my own plus his 2...it was enough. I would have liked to have been something different to him...NO...I needed to be something different to him. I was not married to him and I won't even go as far as to say that was our entire problem but you did hit a sour note....he did view me as the mother and caretaker of all the kids as well as the home. I was that but I was so much more. When his kids called me "mom", I was really flattered but when he called me "mom" I was more than a bit insulted. It kind of made me realize how he looked at me as a person.....not very romantic to say the least.

I call my bf Daddy sometimes..and he does the same with me (calls me Mama or Mommy etc) and my kids have heard me call him Daddy over the phone which was actually really funny since my daughter was like "did you just call him 'daddy'?" I said "yea" and she goes "awwww thats so cute" I damn near wet myself LOL....The only time i do it out in public though is if I'm being cheeky and play whining for something completely outlandish etc

No it is definately strange to hear people do this. My hubby sometimes jokes about and calls me "Mummy" and I get really cross and tell him I am not your mum because if I am then you cant sleep with me anymore! I just thing it is strange for people to do it.

No you are not. Its something i have never understood. I can not imagine being with someone and calling them daddy. To me its sick.

Thank goodness I have never heard anyone doing this. I would certainly think this would be very strange. My husband is quite forward and I know if he heard it from someone he would ask them why they do it and tell them how odd, strange and weird it is. No you are not crazy. I would be disturbed too, if I heard this. Thank goodness I do not hear or see this.

even i do not like that.but then my mom uses that term for ny dad.i sometimes refer to my hubby as daddy infront of my kids.

it is very weird. i have not heard something like that. but its very very weird. I think there must be something amiss in psychology

Yes I think it is creepy. I have never called my husband daddy or him call me mommy. That is just sick. I think that he would leave me if I ever called him that!! LOL And after meeting his mom , if he ever called me mommy i would have him committed,

No you are not the only one. I think it's just really mental and sick. Yep a GAG is definitely in order!

Scientifically, psychological studies point out to the fact that the sons have an inherent mother fixation ingrained and similarly, the daughters of the family have a natural father fixation in a normal family set up. That is why a son is unconsciously looking for the same vision of the mother figure in his partner who tends to his emotional needs in most ways possible and vice versa. So when these extensions get distorted, such people may forget that their partners are separate individual identities as well.

it doesnt bother me at all, coz it's what they want to call each other... but i dont want me and my husband calling each other "Mommy and Daddy" coz i really dont want to be my husband's mommy... never... :)

Lol! I don't want to judge those people, but for me, those who are calling their wives as "Mommies" are looking for a Mother Image rather than a wife. They can't forget their mothers and want their wives to have the same views and lifestyle like their own moms. Same goes with wives calling their husbands as "Daddies". I don't want to offend those who are calling their partners like these but same with you Moonlitmagikchild...I don't like it.

I don't find it creepy, but I think it's cheesy. And yes, cheesy things give me goosebumps. But I don't actually mind hearing couples refer to each other as "mommy" or "daddy". That's their business. But I won't use it myself.

I dont find it disturbing to hear other people call it, but I am sure I wont call my partner daddy....cheers

No, you're not the only one. I am disturbed too most especially if its boyfriend and girlfriend saying those terms. I mean, that's not acceptable, they're not yet married yet alone are they even mom and dad at this point. I do have a friend who call each other mommy and daddy, it was really weird. But anyhow, maybe it's acceptable because they looked like a mommy and a daddy. hahahaha... Well, it's actually an insult. Yeah it's weird and should only be used by married couples who have toddlers or kids most especially if kids are around, to help kids identify and call them mommy or daddy.

you mena the "whose your daddy?" type of thing? i agree GAG. If im ever asked that my response will be sure as heck not you. i refer to my boyfriend most often as my boy (ok i know hes a man but yeah) or when im talking to him its sweetie, honey..sometimes DUDE (when im excited to see him cause i have something to tell him)

i think it confuses a young child when they say that. It even bothers some people when their other half calls them that

Well, I have nothing against people calling their love ones like that. It's their choice and if they're happy with it??Let's give them that.

i'm not bothered by it at all...it's weird for couples without kids using those terms of endearments but for parents, it's natural...cuz parents just get used to referring to their other half as such because of their kids...but for childless couples, yeah it may seem odd...