do you ever get tired of your lover? :(
By kareem50
@kareem50 (2)
United States
10 responses
@theredquill (586)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I have been in a committed relationship for eight years now, and yes there were times that I do get bored with my boyfriend. Sometimes, I do even feel that I'm falling out of love. But when we give each other space, I would miss him so much and realize that I love him dearly. So don't fret, boredom is part of it. There's no such thing as a smooth-sailing relationship. It is a roller-coaster ride. If you get bored, take your girl out somewhere new, go on a trip to a place you've never been to, do something interesting together. It is just a matter of breaking the monotony. Good luck to you and your girl!
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@arun827 (38)
• India
11 Nov 08
i am talking about my husband.he always trying to make me happy.i enjoyed it a lot.but some times when i have some troubles he is not taking it as serious and he is talking smething and makes me so boring and tensed.but i love him so.....much.
@rsa101 (38126)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I guess every relationship does get to the point that they may feel bored and nothing is happening at all. I guess what is important in here is that despite it you still find her interesting and still makes you happy. That is part of being love and sharing your love with her.
@theredquill (586)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I agree with you 100 percent. You see love is more than feelings and passion, it is a decision to stay in love and commit with the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
@tranquil (21)
• United States
12 Nov 08
i know exactly how you feel. i get the same way sometimes. the thing you got to take a look at is, do they have more qualities you like then the qualities you don't like. just take a look at that and decide "is this what i want?" ","is this what I'm willing to live like?" in any relationship, you may not always agree or feel entertained. so during those times you get bored, give yourself something to do. preferably something you enjoy. it doesn't always have to be WITH them.
getting separate hobbies is a great idea as well as setting a specified time of the week you both just hang out and talk. But if you find you are wanting to spend more time away rather than with. its not far to both of you to stay in the relationship, so getting both of you to agree going your separate ways, is best. i hope that helps.:)
@deepika_mona (1338)
• India
11 Nov 08
no i dont get bored when he is with him as we gout for picnic n spend lot of time with him when ever he come to meet me as we both stay far from each other so most of time we talk on ph so there i so no chance to get tried or bored of him i always keep on missing him that when he will come back to meet me
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I don't really get bored with my boyfriend, were together for 2 yrs and 4 months now and I get excited and giddy whenever I see him. ^_^
His like my bestfriend so we do a lot of things together. Like play pc games, shop, watch movies, food trips..etc etc.
I'm never really bored when I'm with him.
@simpaulguy (310)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I dont get bored when I'm with my "love". She is my world and Im very much happy when Im with her or we're together. I get bored and feel sad if she's not with me or haven't seen each other. She is the only person that can make me happy the most. I love her so much, that's why I dont feel like you do to your girl. Since you are a man, you're the first to make you, her, and relationship to be happy and enjoyable. Make your girlfriend smile, so you can smile too when you see her happy. Happy MyLotting my friend.
@marlsv3 (37)
• United States
11 Nov 08
if you are bored in your relationship, look inward. Maybe you are doing anything to remedy your situation. Why don't you be a bit spontaneous and plan out something for you to do together to create more fun memories. Talk to your partner and make a plan to do something out of the ordinary if schedules are a problem. It is all a state of mind. YOu are probably just sitting there wishing you could do something, but not getting up and making it happen! Try it out. It take a small ounce of initiative! Good luck finding that spark again!