Did you ever get hurt because of your partner????
By rea_02
@rea_02 (49)
Philippines
November 11, 2008 2:34am CST
what are the best thing to do if someone broke your heart?? How are you going to cope with it???
5 responses
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 10
People i really love(friends and family included) typically do not get hurt by me even on accident as they know my sense of humor slip ups and whatever else. That i would do anything i possibly can for people i love and they know that. People who i don't really like tho have a tendency to get hurt by me just because i am to honest a person.
Love has the way to be hurtful , but has the way to heal and be happy too^^ Just follow your heart and always be sincere, not only to your partner, but yourself also.
@venisamendes (15)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 08
If you are really hurt....which i think is quiet natural....u need to tell this to your partner and discuss and talk about it.....only a mutual talk would help you on that as to why this happens to one of you.....simple....no need to fight and show egoism.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
Hi there Rea!
For me, the best thing to do when someone broke your heart is to be surrounded by the people who really loves you - unconditionally. It would be the best way to be reminded how important and well-loved you are and also the best time to make it up to the people that you were taking for granted when you were in a relationship.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
It is unavoidable thing for both lovers to hurt each other sometimes. While some can do it intentionally, some might do it unintentionally.What might get hurt you most in a relationship are by means of words. Words hurt more than rather than any other thing.
He had hurt me once. I keep quiet and not say to him anything because I thought he mean it. And then he keep asking me what is wrong. He noticed the sudden change in me. And he not give up asking till I finally tell him what went wrong.In the end, we finally found out the cause of this and it is because of misunderstanding. From that day, we made an agreement that we will not keep secrets from each other and have always an open communication.
@kyliexo (71)
• United States
11 Nov 08
Usually what I have done in the past after a break up is to spend a lot of time with friends and family. These people generally love you unconditionally and won't judge you for being upset or talking about your recent ex "too much". And always, time will heal but it is hard to push through at first. For myself personally, I find that I get an occasional twinge of missing that person until someone else comes into my life. Then I start wondering what I ever saw in my ex in the first place ;)