when you on a date, what you think on your mind?
By sweetaryna
@sweetaryna (120)
Malaysia
November 11, 2008 4:44am CST
Can you actually date someone without wondering " is this the one" . "is this my future husband/wife?". I have to admit that i think these types of things on a date. is there such thing as a simple date where these thoughts dont come into play??
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@ideamanx6 (45)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
yes and it happens to me most of the time. When I am on a date I dont think on these things. I just enjoy my day with my date. I try to think of these things when my date is my girlfriend. That is the time that I start to ask myself curiously.
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@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
Sometimes it does and sometimes not.I usually go on dates with frineds(both genders),with acquaintances and with my special someone.During my single days(by the way im still single but not available anymore)i date guys for three reasons,1. i was asked out and was not rude to reject it,2.i like the guy and i do hope to bbuilt or have a relationship with him and 3.just a friendly date.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
Hmm.. That's funny. I never realized that some people do think of those, do you think like that too?
Anyhow, I don't.
I simply just get to know the person. I'd often think whether or not there's going to be a second date, or to see if I like the person. The way he talks, speaks his mind, humor, physical feature I like and dislike. Those sorts of stuff.
So far, I haven't really gone to a lot of dates anyhow. But to several, I think about those.
I think it's better to think that way so that there won't be unnecessary stress on your part and no hurt feelings in the end when there isn't going to be a second date or a third. It's best to keep assumptions closed and just enjoy the moment.
Maybe this is why I was shocked at myself now that I have my partner because I didn't see him as someone I could be with. He even farted during our first date. Hahahahaha!!!
@sweetaryna (120)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 08
laydee..I think its natural for people who are dating to wonder if they are ' the one '..but i think most of people,like you or others find 'the one' when they least expect it. Well your first date with him seem to be unforgetable ya..: )