what do you look for in your partner (externally). rank the following

i list this for fun rather than in real life. Do you think i am so stupid and idiotic to start a nonsensical post I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. Just having this discussion for fun makes it a nonsensical post to me. I reread to find out your meaning & have come to the conclusion that I'm wasting my time in this discussion. Please continue with those who DO get it!!! Sorry I wasted our time!!!

no. it is ok. i guess i am also rash to rate your reply as negative in anger. i would rate it positive back to neutralise it. hopes that help and dun affect your earning or ranking much. my intention of starting this is to find out how important would one value external and internal attributes. by listing out the external attributes as idealistic choice, we can compared them to our current partner and see if they are almost similar, most of the time, it should be similar as we would not choose a partner who differs from our preferences. Thereafter, we can look again at the list and see you would trade inner beauty for it. i know it is hard to get what i mean but let put an example, everyone can say inner beauty is important but there are some who are willing to exchange it for other external attributes like wealth or some is willing to endure an unreasonable but pretty gf etc.

i think you are not getting the point in my post. i list this for fun rather than in real life. Do you think i am so stupid and idiotic to start a nonsensical post. this is why i list all measureable external attributes rather than internal attributes. of course, i know there are a lot of inner beauty like care, kind, hardworking, sincere etc. too many to list down that i do not think i would want to do it here. Look at my thread properly, i already stated that we take away inner beauty for a start and do our ranking according to external attributes. somehow along the way u are missing out on something.

that is in real life but what about the order if u have a choice? for me now my wife is almost the same height as me but i would prefer someone shorter. apart from that, the rest of the attributes are almost the same as in real life for me.

Is this not for fun? Ok I would pick no 1 height. (I am short) so I would lower my husband a little. Then good looks. Then a good body, Some money and family does not matter either. Cheers. Thanks for the discussion.

haha. we are almost similar in our ranking. cheers and have a nice day

wow. why would u consider family background first? i am curious cos most of my friends would not list it high in priority? my assumption is that u come from a traditional family? dun get me wrong but i am interested to know why family background is high up. in olden china or few generations ago, i think family background is the most important when coming together in a relationship but this has changes with time.

haha. we leave character out in this discussion but rather rank those that can be seen or measure. that is my intention. i know character is very important but let leave it out in this instance. taking that away, Job and qualification are important, am i right?