Bad News for Kitkat this Christmas season?

I guess that's what you get when you stop using your brains and start using all your heart. I don't know the person but it's very sad for someone who's obviously going to spend Christmas alone, not only that, with a lot of bills to pay. This is the drawback of living in with someone, I guess. You don't know exactly what his/her background totally is. We don't really know, maybe the guy's doing that to women for a long time, and maybe in that 6years he has got other women around, right? Plus going through lengths of allowing the person to go through your finances that well?! Oh my, she really trusted him so much there, and she learned it the hard way. Was there any fight before the incident? Maybe she did something that triggered him to do this right? You don't live with someone for 6years and not know where he could go, they should have common friends or she should have known by now the family.

She did what any person in that situation would have done she shared her information not because she thought "oh i feel like getting scammed someday by him" rather she felt she is in a relationship. And most people in relationships do share account info when it comes to banking. Here is the thing, married couples share their info, the only difference is that she isn't married to the guy. Married guys have cheated, married guys have divorced and taken not only what is theirs but what is their wife's as well... (two incomes so she puts in money but takes everything anyway) Im not saying all married men or divorced men have done this, or will do this. But it happens. And sadly enough what happens to her just happens sometime. You trust someone because it is a leap of faith to trust. That trust is what makes a relationship. If my husband wouldn't put me on our bank account and let me withdraw/deposit money i wouldnt be mad about the money rather the lack of trust. Catch 22 - if you don't or if you do you end up losing something both ways.

ooopss.. i dont know kitkat.. i only know the chocolate=) but this story is sad and sounds devastating. hope others who have heard this news learn a lesson not to easily trust someone. as for me, i will only trust that person once we're married. i mean, how can you be assured that you're partner truly loves you if you've been living for 6 years without getting married. just my own opinion..

Heard the news too. But she has her fault too because she trusted the wrong guy. She told her live-in partner everything so she's really in a serious trouble. I'm not sharing my personal or private details to my partner even though we're 5 years because its too hard too trust. ^^.

oh well what's done is done. the best thing she can do is to file a complaint and hoping the proper authorty will catch that a**hole. It's also a lesson for everyone that no matter how long you and your partner have been together, he/she can still betray you in just a blink of an eye.

Yes i heard this bad news from TV patrol. I feel sorry for Kit Kat. She choosed the wrong person to trust. . . and to love. I agree, the material loss can be replaced cause she has lots of opportunities in showbusiness, but the loss of trust and love can never be replaced. She would be loveless this christmas season, but hey at least she found at this early stage( though 6 years seems long already) that this guy can never be trusted. Personally, I would never give all of my trust in a single person especially my bank accounts and my credit cards.

hello, i thougt it was about chocolate "kitkat" coz i heard it got melanine... anyway, well probably it will take time for her to have it back if her ex will. i have watched a series in reality tv and they have this show title "Eye for an Eye" it has a judge and the complainant and the accused are both their. And 1 series was that they had a joint account and where the lady was the one who deposited everything and the guy may have deposited 1% of it. so by the time they parted ways the lady found out that her money was gone and without her knowledge he took it and purchased a wide screen tv. in the end the lady won the trial and verdict was to SAW the wide screen tv into 2 and they've shown it on air... i guess kitkat will feel better like that, breaking whatever he spend it for.

I haven't watched it from the news but my mom told me about it. I was shocked when she told about that news and I feel sorry for Kitkat. She doesn't deserve that. I have read before that she's the breed winner of her family and now that she's bankrupt I just hope that she will have many shows to be financially stable again. It may be Kitkat's mistake that she entrusted her money but I don't judge her by her actions. Hope that she learned a lesson from that misfortune and everything goes well.

I don't think you should ever be this so trusting especially in the face of the fact that you are not even married. How could Kitkat be that....? Is it not that even married couples sometimes are having problem with trust? I think you have to look at the lifestyle of your partner. If he is a lazy dependent fellow who only asks and asks money from you and let you pay all the bills and he does not even care to give his share then perhaps you have to be very careful. With my husband though, I could completely entrust the savings account because he is a respectable and honest man who works hard to earn a living. He is the breadwinner of the family. I also work but he is the bigger earner. He however entrust the budgeting of the family expenses to me. He has his own money and I also have mine, but we have a common money which we use in our daily living. It is not however a problem for both of us to entrust our own money to each other because we already know each other fully well and although we handle separate money for our personal expenses we never hide any money from each other. In fact, his money is mine and my money is his. That is our policy in the house.

I believe she was to fault on this one.She certainly didn't think clearly.I am with my partner for 18 years now and my bank account and purse are two nono's.[lol]It is not that i don't trust him.i just feel these are just for me.He has his own bank account as well.

Hay .. what goes around comes around .. I hope that karma will catch up with KitKat's partner .... lesson learned ... you should always protect yourself when it comes to your assets ... you'll never know ...

Yeah, I watched the news yesterday about it and I felt bad for her. I know how hard it is for her because she worked for that money then someone she trusted for 6 years disappeared with all of those. Gosh, really. I think she just made the wrong decision of trusting the guy too much. She should have known the person very well. I can say that in her case, 6 years is not enough to know someone very well. Well, they were just live-in partners and the guy has a family before they became together so there's no guarantee that everything will work out fine between the two of them. I am just sad about Kitkat, especially when I saw her crying. It was just so devastating. The guy was such a pain in the a**.

I am sure the guy wouldnt enjoy the money since he would go into hiding . Peopel would recognize him wherever he goes and say : "Oh, that's Kitkat's boyfriend that took the poor girls' money ! " I am sure he wouldnt like that. he would forever be labeled as nothing but a fraud, liar and bad man forever. If I were him, I would go out of the country so people wouldnt recognize me.

My office mates talks about it just this morning. Thats too bad for her... i hope she'll get over it soon.

This is sad, because I feel that you should be able to trust someone that you love. Otherwise why would you be living with them? My husband and I have access to all of our money, and share accounts and everything. I wouldn't be very happy if I couldn't trust him or he couldn't trust me. I just don't see a good solution.

Oh that is so bad of this guy to really betray her 6 year live in partner. I could not just think why would this guy suddenly thinks of this things. Oh well money can really make other people go crazily addicted to it. Karma will soon beset this guy pretty soon than he thinks.

Well I guess the root of all evil is LOVE. She trusted that guy a lot because of her love to that person! I feel sorry for her I see her as a jolly and hardworking person but no ones to blame I hope they find the guy and may he rest in jail for all his life....

Gosh! I wasn't able to watch TV Patrol last night, i really feel sorry for her. I remember Kris Aquino discuss this same matter with The Buzz, she told Boy Abunda and Ruffa no matter how much trust we have to somebody we should not entrust them any of our accounts because according to Kris if we do so we are giving them the reason to harm us in any way. And i guess Kris is right, its the same situation happened with Jennylyn Mercado and her former road Manager. With this I hope everybody not only KitKat learned from this. We really can not disclose everything to our partner this is not only for our own safety by just a reservation for ourself.

Is she the one that had plastic surgery before? Oh well, that's such bad news. But I guess, she has learned her lessons well. If I am for her, since she is a celebrity, she could try to hunt the guy and sue him. there is nothing impossible now. Let the guy pay for whatever he did. Now, as fo Kitkat, she needs to stand up and work hard to start all over again.

Yeah...I saw the news last night..poor kitkat.IF i was kitkat i would not trust any body even my live in partner but thats difficult for her because they live in 6 years..huhhuhu.Mybe even me..can also be fool for that.I think that his live in partner has already commited to someone.If she already know that,She must find a right man to love her and also not yet commited and willing to love her back..