Do you like to respond to a very long topic?

@Bebs08 (10681)
United States
November 11, 2008 6:25pm CST
Honestly, I preferred short and concise topic for discussion. It turns me off to read a very long topic like an article type? Oh!! my goodness!! I know there are good ones but It's like, I will be lost of my response if the topic is too long. But sometimes, when it is really very interesting, I would spend time reading and responding but that is only rare for me. I like that 3-4 lines or maybe the most 5-6 not like almost 1 page? As if there's no thrill anymore. What about you? please share!!!!
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@avidwhit (1492)
• Mexico
12 Nov 08
I have been wondering for sometime about posting a similar post. Thanks for beating me to it! I feel the same as you and you did a great job of posting it to the point and discriptive. Post on! :)
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Oh really? hahaha so, I beat you up? anyway, I am just sharing what I honestly feel and want to know if there are others there who feel the same..
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@avidwhit (1492)
• Mexico
13 Nov 08
Thannks for sharing and know that there is at least one other who feels the same way. Great that you shared cause I like knowing Im not alone as well. :) Post on!
@mapi26 (549)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
it's not that it bores me when there are long topics but it's the content that i'm aiming at. of course a topic with less words and which has a brief & concise info is plus wherein i could easily hit the "respond" button and type what i have in mind. but let's admit it, there are people who goes around the point. i'm not telling it's bad but these people are wordy because some can't express what they feel. at one point some can express more in words because they tell stories or experiences. to be honest, those who shares their experiences is something i'm more interested at because when i read their stories i could tell that i'm not alone experiencing the battles of life. it's always nice to hear stories of others. what i usually don't respond to are topics which are obviously taken from an article, that which that has no originality.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
yes, I agree with you. I like topics in personal experience.. that means original not copied.
@mapi26 (549)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
indeed! more on a personal basis with a co-mylotter. it's like having someone you can relate your life to or on the other hand someone you could help or could help you.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
12 Nov 08
Hello Bebs. I also like to read and respond to short discussions in most cases. As to long discussions, it depends on how much I can relate to the topic. If I cannot find anything to relate to it, I usually give it up. But I have to say that sometimes you will find very useful information in a long discussion if you go on reading it with interest and patience. Have you found this, please, Bebs? So I usually try not to miss the points and discussions that can arouse my interest. Thank you for your discussion, Bebs. Good day.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
hahah good for you, I admire you for that... cheers
• China
12 Nov 08
Thank you, friend.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
13 Nov 08
I tend to delete the notification for very long discussions. It puts me off too. The maximum I would like in a discussion would be about 7 lines. Nothing more than that.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
hahaha we feel the same. Even if it is interesting but too long? I will not respond to it. I would look for short and interesting ones.
• United States
13 Nov 08
I'm one of those people who don't care much for reading in general, meaning if it's a bunch of words clattered together, I immediately lose interest because I'm impatient and would really like to get to the point.Some long disussions I will answer to because the topic may interest me, or I'm quite fund of the author of the discussion.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
aha!!! you are playing favoritism? hahaha.. yes, I like to have that direct to the point topic. I don't like wordy..
• India
13 Nov 08
Hi Bebs08, I too perfer short and concise topic for discussion. If would definitely respond to a topic immediately if it is short and easy going. I am not interested in reading a topic for more than half a page and getting confused whether to respond or not! :) Cheers and regards, forcashksd Happy mylotting!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
hahaha you're right!!! very confusing when it is too long. You will be lot of what to say as a response.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
12 Nov 08
i tend to be lazy and not bother to read them. i am usually on mylot for a short period of time and like you, i will only go after the shorter discussions that relate to me is some way. i find my attention span is not that long! lol
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
hahaha we are the same. I am interested with a concise discussion but with sense and humor..
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 Nov 08
[i]Hi Bebs, I don't like also to read long post! I prefer concise one! I will be bored when it is very long already and very detailed![/i]
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Hi Che, hahah we are the same. I felt bored with that detailed and long topic..
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Thats how I am too, I don't like having to read the real long topics, there are some good ones as you said, but sometimes I don't have the time to sit here and read and read. I'll respond to the 3 or 4 liners and 5 or 6 liners, they are more easier to understand sometimes....I try to respond to all my friends tho. Have a good day
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
yes, if it comes from a friend and that friend has a good reputation to have an interesting discussion? I will try to be patient answering it.
@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
i also prefer the same way. i can share more of my thoughts if its only a short discussion. i often found that those long discussions are their stories or sharing too!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
absolutely, you are right!!! stories like novel? hahaha
@ajit25 (1008)
• India
12 Nov 08
I too don't like to respond long discussion, the time i see a discussion of 8-10 lines discussion i just avoid to respond because i can not afford time in reading long discussion in mean time i can respond to 2-3 discussion of 4-5 lines that interests me
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
hahaha!! we are the same. But as what others had said, it it is interesting, I might consider stretching my time to read and response.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
12 Nov 08
Well,you have to take both.some are precise and some are narrative.What to see is, whether they are interesting or not.Some are not satisfied with few words.They want to be more clear to themselves.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Oh yes, I understand that.. If the topic is really interesting, I might consider extending a few minutes to read and respond. But still good to have that simple,direct to the point and concise topics to discuss.
@pabremer (43)
• Brazil
12 Nov 08
I don't like reading long posts too... I only ready topics with 4~9 lines MAX. It's a waste of time and you can resume what you want to discuss. And I don't like to respond a discussion with more than 5 lines, it get tired easy
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
hahaha!!! I think it's not tiresome if it interests you? 5 lines are not that bad? 1 whole page or half a page? that's boring.
@gauthami (137)
• New Zealand
13 Nov 08
Me too same thing i dont like long topics to discuss..its vey annoying..sometimes if i start discusion some pple gives me a big answer i dont even read it..because i m not interested in reading the whole page and wasting my time...3-4 line sis fine for me ..it will be gud to read .we dont get bored...
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 Nov 08
hahaha You are right!!! 4-5 lines still fine with me. But half page? nope!!!!
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
12 Nov 08
Hi there Bebs. I agree that some long topic are a bit annoying if i can call them that in the term that they may contain a subject not be very appealing to me but if they are from my friends i try to answer nevertheless. It is tiring at times because i know that i won't get paid more but at least i know my friends will be pleased to find my response show up there. And of course there are the very interesting subjects for me that i will read no matter how long it is - what really matters is the importance of the information for me, not the length as far as i am concerned
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
hahaha you have a point. If it is from our friend, we sometimes sacrifice a little time to read and response.. hahaha
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
12 Nov 08
Hi Bebs! Sometimes I do, but most of the time that I don't, lol. And like you said, if the discussions are interesting ,I will take my time to read and respond to it. I don't read fast, so it will take me some time before I respond. I think it is easier to respond to a short topic, in my opinion though. Thanks!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
You are exactly right!!! short,concise and meaty discussion is good to answer than like a novel..
@lovely30 (26)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
well, i fi let to response or give my opinion in a certain topic i dont like a long one with no sense i prefer a short one which is direct to the point or the reader can understand well,coz mostly of the participants gives long introduction but at the end there is a simple meaning on it
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
that's the right word!!! Sensible discussion is preferable though, it's a little bit long as long as it has full of sense, I might consider reading and responding to it.
@sunnbk (26)
• China
12 Nov 08
Thank you for share your ideas about that,my opinion is similar to yours.If the topic more than 10 lines,i have to turn to another topic for my impatience.I prefer to the inreresting or useful topics.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
right!! I think most of us here have the same like? a short and concise topic.. hahahaha
• India
12 Nov 08
Most of the times I like to respond to small discussions, but if the discussion is really really interesting it doesnot not matter how long it is.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Oh!! the length of the topic matters for me. short and concise is better.
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
As for me, i hate reading such a long topic. For as long as you raise exactly your point, i think that would be fine enough to start a good quality conversation between two people.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Hi mamamng_maldito, welcome to mylot!!! you are right!! goof quality conversation is good to start but there are times that we find it hard to do?