Why brother & sister always argue ???
By dominichan
@dominichan (302)
Malaysia
4 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 Nov 08
Dear Dominichan, Vey interesting topic of discussion! Well it is not only brother and sister always argue ! If you have noted carefully there is always arguement between twolovers, between a wife and husband, between son and mother, between dayther and father, between two good friends and where ever there is involvement of two individuals associated with emotions!
Basically it is very natural tohave difference of opinion between two individuals as both are two separate identities. but we are not bothered about the different opinion given by a stranger as we are not really bothered about that person.
But when the thing comes to our sister, brother, mother, father, friend etc. we care and have concern for these people and this bonding makes us to instigate into getting into a arguement! We some times take our beloved ones for granted and we get terribly upset if we find their behaviour varying from our expectations and because of this distubances we get annoyed and get into arguements!
If thre is no love, affection or emotional attachment, believe me thre won't be any arguement at all ! Arguement is milder form of anger and anger is one extreme of emotionlove being the other !
Thus it is very natural ti have arguements between brother and sister, and between all the members as quoted above!
Believe me these arguements are best momentsof our life and we remember these argument at the later part of life as sweet memories of the past! So if are one lucky one to enter into an arguement with your brother/sister please don't get disappointed, please enjoy it and preserve this as your future's sweet memory!
Thanks dear friend it was a nice topic of discussion!
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
hmmm, same with my us, my two sisters always do argue but i just think its just normal cause we really have this differences in our selves so maybe its best to respect each others views in life for them not to argue,happy lotting...
@lavender88 (192)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
Life will be so boring if we dont quarrel once in a while. Sometimes because of small little things that we can upset about. But at time, the quarrel just start without any reason. No matter what, it wont last long. The making up is the best and can bring you closer.
