closeness with family members

In my home country, everyone is really close. You can live with your parents even if you're already married and have kids. As for me, I would want to live separately so nobody will interfere with our family problems. You can;t help it....it does happen.

That is cool that you live with your husbands family,which includes your brother in law,his wife,and kid,and I am glad that there are no problems which means all of ya'll must be getting along which is a very good thing if you ask me,I think family members should be really close because that is part of being family,you should be able to talk to them,and ask them for help when you need it,I would not call it interfering with your family,but they should be involved with your family because that is a good thing,and it might be better to live seperately and keep problems from starting because you would be distant,but distance is not always the best thing because that can also cause problems since you are not that close,my fiance currently lives with me at my parents house,and she has no problem living here,we all get along like one big happy family,and my parents do interfere from time to time but they just want what is best for us,and they are trying to help us better our lives,just like right now we are planning our wedding,and saving up money for our wedding which is set for September of next year,and my mother is helping us plan our wedding,since she has had two weddings and she knows more about what it takes and she has also bought stuff for our wedding since me and my fiance do not have a lot of money since we can not find a job and we are depending on the money we make online,and I am sure she will help us get other stuff for the wedding if we do not have the money for it.

i think you should really have your own place.this would relly be hard to live with family while being married i dont even know how it would work.

I am a firm believer that two families can NOT live together. Wether they be related or not. I love my family with all my heart, my husband, my son, and I go to see my mom and dad three or four times a week, but in NO way can we live with them. I'm to hard headed like my dad and my mom likes her privacy.