Love and expectations
By efarmer
@efarmer (184)
November 12, 2008 1:00pm CST
I love my husband very much and I know that he does to also. I do many things for him. I write nice little romantic notes to him and place them where he finds them. I also email him cute messages and cards. I tell him always how much I like him and appreciate all that he does. I do whatever he tells me to do. I never even refuse to fulfill all his fantasies in bed. and yet he never does any such thing back to me. He never tells me he loves me, if I make the first move in bed then 99% of the time he refuses making up some excuse. I love him very much and I am bending over backwards to please him and I see nothing coming from him. I know he loves me but what is wrong here. When I tell him why doesnt he do such things for me, he simply laughs me off. and it has been only 7 months of our marriage. I think it is too early for the flame to die out, isnt it? Can anyone please point it out to me?
2 responses
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
12 Nov 08
Hmmm...maybe his love language is different from yours?
You should read this article: http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/learn.html. After reading it, what do you think your husband has done to and for you to show you that he loves you?
If he does none of them, then I don't know what to say...you should really talk to him and tell him that you don't feel loved and tell him what you wish he would do or say every once in a while.
