You are in love?

My love is the reason for everything I do. My love for my 3 sons and daughter and for my wife who allows me to be myself and make mistakes and have triumphs. She loves me for who I am and has never tried to change me. She loves me so much that she is willing just to sit back and watch me grow. I feel much the same way about her. I couldn't have chosen my love or my partner better.

I am not in love and I have found the idea of being in love to be very passive and to me, less attractive than loving and making love.