Am I a controlling beyotch or is something rotten in the state......?

if this were mature content i'd tell you what to do with his assets ... involves a sharp object =P Well he deserves to be confronted... did you see if he responded to that negatively though? His response is what matters. She wouldn't have the gull to say something like that if he put her in line. No she is the - enter explicative of choice here (hehe) - not you. She knows he's married and sends such messages. He is to blame as much as her. He has clearly given her freedom to speak in such a provocative manner with him. It might not be physical but in my opinion with that sort of talk who knows what else she said... i'd be peeved that's for sure. He might be faithful physically but sure is a two timer emotionally my friend. I hope i have not offended you. I wrote this as i imagined myself in your shoes.