husband or a close friend,who is the best?

@anjanabs (127)
India
November 12, 2008 9:23pm CST
wives,listen here.this question is for you.how many of you share every thing to your husband and how many of you keeping something away from your husband?if you want to share some problem to someone who will you prefer,husband or a close friend?how many of you think that husband is your best friend?
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• Malaysia
13 Nov 08
To me, my husband is my best friend. Even though he had broken my heart many times, I still love him because I know he loves me. There are times when I am down and he didn't care for me, but now I know it is not because he didn't love me. It is because he doesn't know how to express his feelings. I forgive him for everything he did to me, and I accept his weaknesses. I know there are a lot of women out there who is not loved by their husbands. Many husbands prefer to hang out with their own male friends. They think their wives is just a wife and nothing more. Wife is supposed to stay at home and do house chores for the husband. A wife cannot go out and have fun, but a husband can. But my husband is not like that. He always comes home on time and he is very patient with me. He is quite pessimistic about life, but it is his attribute and I have to accept his weakness. However, he is a good listener and he listens to what I say. I can tell him about everything and he likes to listen. I feel more comfortable sharing any secrets with husband than with an outside friend. I can't trust an outsider because there are many times I was betrayed by my best friend. It is best that I only tell my husband about my secrets, because he is very trustworthy.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
13 Nov 08
I have a few close friends but yes, my husband is my best friend. We share everything. I don't keep anything from him. I turn to him first before anyone else and he comes to me. We like it that way.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
13 Nov 08
ME! My husband is my best friend!!! I can't keep any secrets to him and same with him also. It may be because we knew each other a lot. So if there,s something bothering in our mind, one knew it right away! One of us may not speak, one will ask what's the matter. I tried to keep things, but I can not. It is because he shares everything to me. As a wife, there's no one that I can trust first but my husband.
@nimnim74 (250)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
I choose my husband because he is on my side forever, I can't keep any secrets to him, I even cannot sleep if I'm still planning to keep a secret to him forever. I used to have a best friend since grade school but she traded me to her husband so I lost my bestfriend, but luckily my bestfriend right now is also my husband.