How will you feel if no one remembered your birthday?

I think it is somewhat disappointing. However, I think it's alright if your friends and loved ones remember your birthday and give you calls or SMS. Actually I don't pay attention to my own birthday since we have a child. The life will be busy with a child:) I love China

if no one remembers my birthday, i will be sad on that whole day . then i will be angry on all people around me and sits cooly without talking to any body. then all can understand me and they get remember my birthday and gives a gift to me . i only prepares cake for me in house and i only eat if i am angry with others and if they forgets my birthday .

Hello This post makes me think of the movie pretty in pink where everyone forgets her birthday , but the man she is crushing on . If this happened to me id be sad and there better be a good reason ! Think i would be most hurt if my soon to be hubby forgot . I have a friend who likes to keep his bday always hush hush !

i am very emotional person so of course i will feel very sad and low.and i do want my friends and my family to remember my special day.maybe they want to give me surprise i will wait till the end of the day and its not possible that everyone will forget it at one time there will be many who will remember it i know for sure.and i believe that.....have a good day,and i hope it never happens with anyone

no one remembers my birthday. no one really knows it. I don't really mind. Its just another day for me really.

maybe a little sense of loss.. but celebrate it myself ,big dinner,pretty dresses,and some little sweet candies.

If nobody remembered my birthday, of course I would feel very sad. I am a sensitive person, and it matter so much to me if a person I love remembers my birthday. A birthday to me is one of the most important dates in my life, other than our anniversary dates and my husband's birthday. My husband used to forget my birthday every year. I used to be very sad but he never realized my sadness. When I brought up the topic about him not remembering, he would get mad. I don't understand why should he be so mad about. It was his fault that he didn't remember. Why on earth must he get angry when I sulked? The years went on until I didn't have any mood to celebrate my birthday anymore. My husband is so ignorant, that I think a birthday or no birthday it doesn't make any difference to me anymore. So I stopped hoping anything from him. But when I started to give up hope on him, he started to remember my birthday. But this time I no longer have any feelings to celebrate my birthday, because I recalled every insulting words he had said to me before when I sulked when he didn't remember my birthday. So now I just received the gift and say thank you. That's all. But I didn't feel the happiness inside of me, because I just can't feel his true love towards me. I don't know, maybe my expectation level is too high for him to reach. But why does he give me plastic flowers on my birthday? Isn't it weird? He said he couldn't find fresh flowers so he bought me the plastic ones. Did it ever occurred to him to just buy me a box of chocolates instead of giving me the plastic flowers? I feel so unromantic of him. He is so ignorant and I really want to have a romantic and caring relationship. He loves me, but he is showing it in the way that I hate. I feel so trapped. Sorry for the vent. Talking about birthday always brings back sad memories in me.

That happened to me years ago... and i was glad nobody remembered... or else they would just bug me to treat them... and i would be in an awkward position... since i do not have the money for that... so i just treated it as an ordinary day... and bought myself a nice dinner... it is sometime nice to have a secret...

Have a big b'day party with myself...

I'll just pretend that it is just another ordinary day and never expect anything from them. I will be a bit disappointed but what can i do, maybe they just do not care about it.

I just had this discussion today with a friend where my ex boyfriends aunt had the same birthday as me and everyone forgot it was my birthday too, it did bother me a little but now i really don't care. it's just another day to me.

Hey mykmari! Well if you don't tell anyone that it's your birthday how can you expect them to know? Maybe no one had any idean that it was your birthday. Sometimes people have to be reminded. And if it is your birthday then Happy Birthday to you and I hope that you will have a great day! You can't expect people to just remember. Sometimes you just have to come out and tell them! So next time it is going to be your special day, tell them in advance and then see what happens.

I wouldn't care really. If any of you have ever read Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy, there's a quote in there that expresses exactly how I feel about my birthday. "Birthdays don't mean a thing to rational people. It's just a day like another when it's necessary to do one's work"

I would be angry, sad and feel like trashing someones place. Selfish, but this is me defined. At least I'm honest with it...