What are some legitimate ways to find special someone?
By jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
Philippines
November 13, 2008 12:56am CST
singlehood sometimes is a horrifying stage to everybody who constantly longed to have a family of their own. I, myself is dreaming to build my own family, but it seems I am running out of time to find that elusive special someone. How can I find him and eventually marry?please help me, I'm beginning to lose hope.
6 responses
@jismol (71)
• India
16 Nov 08
whoa wait up girl :)...dont be in such a hurry to find ur mr.right coz he might eventually turn out to be the biggest mr. wrong [ believe me on this].....Before thinking of marrying n having family n all tht i think u shud take time n find a person whom u can be sure tht he will be with u....The first thing u shud look for in a person is whether u r comfortable with him....C if u can be totally honest with him, a person to whom u can talk abt anything under the sun n a person who really "listens" rather than just "hear".....For all this u will need time n take ur time coz i think its worth the wait than get married soon, find out tht he is a complete mess n get divorced :D.....n hey u r quite young to think that ur time is running out....U aint exactly 50 yrs old u know n there r ppl who gets married at that age too...so chill dudette :)...
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Yes, I am still young and very hopeful for a special person to come. I already met him, you know, I am sure he is the exact person I am waiting for, I am very comfortable with him and we are very close that leads to the point that we have this mutual understanding. People around us started suspecting there is something going on. But when I ask the guy where I stand in his life, he simply told me his treatment is nothing but close friend also. I was hurt, deeply hurt and started avoiding him. I know he has no girlfriend because he told me all his secrets, troubles and plans for the future. I don't know why he just say his treatment has nothing special, where I can sense he is very thoughtful and treated me special. I was disappointed with his reply anyway and wanted to avoid him to throw my attention to other possible suitors.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
20 Nov 08
[i]Hi jlamela,
I guess it's best to join group gathering by friends, party so that you will meet new friends and who knows it will give you the chance to meet your dream boy, there are a lot of sites also if you are interested to meet people from different Country but you have also to be careful and not very trustful, just don't pressure yourself, I know someday you will meet the perfect one for you![/i]
@BubblyIan (750)
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13 Nov 08
If your information on your profile is correct you are only 23. You have plenty of time! Most peopl live to 70+!
I think you may have your priorities wrong! You mention family first. What you need first is a good group of friends of both sexes and an active social life. You will then be haoppy and busy and meeting people in a non-chat up environment and hence less threatening. Maybe you will meet someone interesting and get to know them as part of the group and then maybe it will become more personal. Maybe over time you will fall in love and if you arwe with them for some time it may be you can discuss children. You should not go to a 'special place' as you will meet the wrong kind of person for the wrong reasons and will scare them awy with talk of family! Take your time and get to knwo them first! Have your life otherwise you may regret things that you did not do before you became saddled with the massive responsibility and commitment of having a partner and then having children. Get to know yourself before you try to get to know others. Grow up first before you want to have children!
@perumalammal (2)
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14 Nov 08
Don't loose your hope. your inner being guide u to choose right one. I pray for U get the best better half.
@wanyit (59)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
I'm seaching for mr.right... I'm beginning to worry about singlehood.
Why it is so difficult to get someone who belong each other? I believe that god create human with couple... so where is mine? where r u?
