Why do they don't call back?
By jmp_72
@jmp_72 (246)
Seychelles
November 13, 2008 5:26am CST
Have you ever had a date, where you suddenly feel connect to the person, feels like it's love at first sight, where you really like that person and definetly want to see him/her again. At the end of the date you exchange contacts but the person never calls back or answer your calls. Why do they don't call back?
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2 responses
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 08
It can be one of two things.
1.
They feel the same way as you and they're too nervous to ring- just like you probably are (if they haven't called back- have you even called them?)
or
2.
They're just plain not interested, and on the first date you should have been able to pick this up from their signals- if not, give them a ring and see if they are interested.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
13 Nov 08
maybe he din't feel the way you did. or maybe because he was just passing time, and was already committed to someone. most of the time, it is just as important for the attraction to linger on as the attraction to develop. it might be that the person did get attracted to you, but the attraction faded after a few hours of saying goodbye. human relations and feelings are way too complicated and volatile to allow room for expectations and hopes. you should just live every moment to its fullest.
