embarrassed

@riyasam (16556)
India
November 13, 2008 9:12am CST
just now ,my mom and my daughter aged 6yrs were having an argument.i asked them whats happening and i heard my daughter yell,mamma,shut up.mind your own buisness.i was stunned to hear her say .my mom then asked her from where did she get that word and she said ,i have heard mamma speak to pappa like that.i will never forget the look my mom gave me.i am sure i will get a hearing later.i am so embarrassed.did your kid ever embrass you or for that matter,did anybody else?????
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@trixyteddy (1070)
• India
14 Nov 08
When you look back at this incident later, you will definitely laugh over it. But right now, yes, its very embarrassing. God help you. I cannot remember anything right now as my sons have grown up, but I guess I must have gone through situations like this. Its just normal. Enjoy your daughter's childhood.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
15 Nov 08
hopefully change will be for the better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
now onlyi have changed so much.gok when they grow up,how i will be???????
• India
15 Nov 08
Don't worry my dear, you'll be perfectly alright. I used to wonder about myself too. but then its so gradual, we take it in our stride. We started acting all grown up too.
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@rkrish (3003)
• India
14 Nov 08
I heard many from my neighbours daughter as mine is yet to grown up to speak. Its funny to hear but really a issue for parents..When we all gone out for a trip, my neighbour has told her daughter not to do naughty things outside but she replied dont put 144 outside also, i wont hear...here in my place 144 is kind of POLICE treating THEIFS/JAIL PEOPLES.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
lol.all the best for your future.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
24 Nov 08
i have not seen that movie.now that my curiosity is aroused,i will definetly watch it at the earliest.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
17 Nov 08
Hope it wont be much than the child like in the picture PROBLEM CHILD 2, did you seen that movie
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@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
14 Nov 08
i would have told her that while she is living with me, she IS my business! when kids are around we have to be careful what we say as they emulate all that we say and do.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
you are right in saying she is my buisiness.i have to look after my own.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
26 Nov 08
Hey hey there ! WOW ! That would take me off guard and I would say young lady dont you talk to me like that . I bet she might I heard that from someone at school or something . Kids sometimes too dont think we they speak . I know my mom would of been all bashful and be thinking what will gram think , but we all have been thru it . have a good night
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
26 Nov 08
dear,it is becoming to speak to my hubby now.she catches every word.
@KENSHA29 (34)
14 Nov 08
what you mean embarrassed? so you let you 6 year old tell you to shut up?
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
later on i had a talk with her and i had to promise that i wont use such words and she to promissed not to utter such words.
14 Nov 08
that's good..
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• India
14 Nov 08
No not at all! even to think too..not expecting so much from a six.First let me say that children are the mirror images of ours and they have a psychology of adopting the new style if they find new,and probably do the style in their environment First for grief I tell you to say sorry for your husband tactfully in front your daughter then she will release but never allow between talks.Say that girl that you are a child and you have to stay away form these .sometimes when it does not work just slap Never make her feel that she is Queen and keep that girl under your control
@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
oh no i have to tell sorry.
@livewyre (2450)
14 Nov 08
Hee Hee - my wife was saying to our little girl (4) 'I wish we had a good little girl that ate her dinner' to which the little one replied 'well I wish I had a good Mother...' We were completely stunned by her answer and then both exploded in silent laughter neither of us could look at her or each other while we struggled to regain composure... They pick all sorts of stuff up from their friends, but this one was a 'straight back at ya' type of answer
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
@rsa101 (38189)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Oh boy you just get caught unaware about that. Well children are really good imitators and you should be careful talking when they are around. in my case we also are surprised that sometimes they just blurt out what we just said.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
yaa ,i was caught offguard.
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
14 Nov 08
Oh, this is really...um, let the moms answer your question. I don't have any right to say anything here. Have a great day.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
oh,it is not only for moms.anyways thanks for your response.
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
I did with my younger sibling. Same thing with you.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
thanks for response.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Kids are so sharp they could easily pick up from what they see and hear so be very careful my dear. Of course you wouldn't want your kid to learn more words like that. I can't remember any such circumstance yet that ever happened to me. But there was one time I overheard my son telling to my Mother: "Grandma, I saw Mom and Dad kissing each other!" Then I heard my Mother telling her: "It's because they love each other, you see they are also kissing you because they love you." I heard my son replied: "Ahhhh!"
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
that was really nice of your mom.
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
kids usually do what they hear or learn from their environment. when i hear them say anything that's very unusual, i do ask my kids where they learned the word... if they would tell me that it came from me, i guess i have to think about it and try not to say or do whatever it was. and i'll explain to the kids, why they should not do it...
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
they are my teachers.i improve a lot with them.
@kyliexo (71)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I don't have children yet but I have seen this happen lol. It's not really funny so much as embarrassing, one of those "kids say the darndest things". It's hard to always censor yourself, especially when you're around the little ears 24/7, although I could think of worse things being repeated lol.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
lol.sometimes the comments do become embarrassing.
@kolsnt87 (27)
• India
14 Nov 08
these things do happen often for parents who speak out open heartedly in front of their children but in many ways or other be happy that she said to you and not others and most importantly in front of your own mother and not a stranger,i feel this is lesson for you to learn and correct yourself and again do not even do the smallest of arguments with in Ur hubby before Ur child come on cheer up she has tot you a lesson
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
actually i dont argue infront of kids.it might have happened by chance,she must have been within the hearing range.
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
13 Nov 08
Yep, kids will learn fast by imitation. I bet you were embarrassed. It was like your daughter was holding a mirror to your face to see yourself. The hardest thing is to express one's annoyance or displeasure to one's partner. What we have to keep in mind there always has to be respect even when one disagrees. Otherwise the kids will become more and more disrespectful as they get older. Not an easy task though, that is for sure.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
thanks for your views!
@robinemz (211)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
found your story interesting. my daughters are still babies.. hope this one doesn't happen to me in the future.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
keep your fingers crossed.wait till they learn to speaak.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
13 Nov 08
That is the one thing about kids, they repeat everything they hear from their parents. The only thing I can think of is one time when my daughter told my mom that I my sisters house was a pigsty!! I told her not to say that and she said, but mom, that is what you said to dad! Guess she got me there!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
lol.lol.they sure do know were to catch us.innocent devils!!!!!!!
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
14 Nov 08
oh well, kids are very observant and what they see and hear at home they will copy it wherever they would be. This is a lesson for all parents. They must set good examples because kids would copy whatever things they saw thinking it is right to do that. So, problem kids comes from the home of problem parents. What I mean is, whatever is the orientation of the kids in the home that is what they will do also outside home. It is indeed embarrassing.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
but there are good things too.that they will never observe!!!
@silverjam (969)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Hmnnnnn......seems a little "karma"....kidding! but you see, sometimes its really tru that what we sow is what we reap. I know you never taught your daughter such manner but maybe you are so unaware of some of your bad actions and you never cared them to be seen by your child. Remember that children are very inquisitive and fast learner and very adoptive too. What they learned and what they see are absolute to them; they tend to believe that everything they say and do are right specially when they got it from their parents. Its quite embarrassing but its not yet too late to correct it. Happy parenting!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
there are lot of good things but she chooses to ignore them.
@daceyp (327)
13 Nov 08
dont you just love it when kids do that to you lol.my two are always dropping me in it with people.normaly my parrents or partner.he will be sat in the sitting room and im in the kitchen doing something that he was spose to do ages ago and come out with something like super mum to the rescue again then they will go tell him.or if im in a mood they will say what have you doen to mummy now
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Nov 08
oh i think it is one of the side-efffect of parenting,.lol