Could anybody please help me?

The best tips I've seen for this is to post long comments that actualy are on topic and help people out. Write more than five sentences and stay out of things you don't like. If you see any fighting for example, stay out of it. Just place messages on your interests and make them as useful as possible. I heard also uploading photo's can help alot.

Make quality posts all the time if possible and at least 4 lines of response so you could maximize your earning potential. You can also add photo in your discussion (of course relevant photo also) to add something it your earnings in every discussion that you make.

REgarding tips you can have a lot from fellow mylotters. However if you want any referrals you have to work hard for them. It's not easy to get referrals both to mylot or any other site. Just post quality posts, avoid one liners and post as many as you can per day.

I usually try to post at least 20-25 responses a day. Uploading pictures is good too. Try to make your responses at least 3 or 4 lines. The better the response the more you make. I don't have any referrals so I can't help you there. If I do at least 20-25 responses a day, I usually get around 30 cents.

You have to make quality posts. :) This means that you need to type at least 5 sentences, preferably more. You need to be in-depth and thorough, and do your best to answer the person's question in a way that they are completely satisfied. You need to do this for as many Discussions as possible every single day. Pretty soon, you will see your earnings really start to increase! :) Happy myLotting! :)

Just look for discussions that might interest you. And start some of your own. I just joined the site last week and I have already around 150 posts so it shouldn't be that hard for you to find discussions that interest you.