Do you think you could ever forgive a cheating partner?
By lilianaboca
@lilianaboca (414)
United States
20 responses
@IsIstheNicest20 (385)
• United States
7 Nov 06
i can't forgive them because they're stupid enough to get into the relationship.. so i wouldnt even pay attention to them
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@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I'm sorry to hear ("read") that...Is your divorce because of infidelity?
@MichelleLDevon (828)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I can forgive, in time, but forgetting - no. I've had too many partners cheat, and you don't forget, no matter how much you think you can... it's just not that easy when trust is broken.
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
You think? Don't you think that if he would love you he wouldn't do it? And if he did make a mistake, he would be smart enought not to do it again?
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Don't you think forgiving IS forgetting? If not, then you really don't forgive...do you?
@Kelian (768)
• Trinidad And Tobago
16 Nov 06
I could probably forgive, but I would have a hard time forgetting or trusting the person again. I would end the relationship, because a relationship where I can’t trust my partner would be torment. I’d go crazy. I will not do that to myself. It’s better to just let it go and move on with your life. Cheating is too big a betrayal for me.
@achilles7 (1276)
• India
17 Nov 06
Forgive every body.It makes you life easy and tension free. If you punish can you set things right. we ourselves are sinners.Then how can you count on others mistakes. Forgive and pardon always.
@kruell_intentionz (1159)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think I could but it would take a long time to trust again
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
You are brave! I don't think I would be able to EVER trust again...
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I agree. Once you realize it is being done to you, you can forgive and move one. There is no need for you to stay there.
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
LOL!!! A good spanking...that's a good prespective...LOL!!
@mommyto2boys (58)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Hech no!!! There is no way I can forgive a cheater,or forget.If you not happy in the relationship leave,dont cheat!!!!
@lilianaboca (414)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I agree! I think you start looking in another direction when love is no longer there. So if you know you don't love your partner, break up the relationship, then go out and look for something new. Not the other way around...
@jennyjo75 (34)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I have forgiven....but forget....that is another story...I dont think that I can ever forget. Something like that shapes who you are and how you react to things from that point on....only my opinion :)
@leopardxtasy (2426)
• United States
16 Nov 06
i can forgive over time but i will never forget and i wont stay with him either
@syncreation (243)
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
Well yes, I don't want to carry the pain..I let go and MOVE ON...
