What's the ideal number of children for you?

@wrangel15 (1443)
Philippines
November 13, 2008 7:56pm CST
I know someone who has so many siblings. My mother has 8 siblings and it really helped my mother-side grandparents during their time. They have a field and they have enough children to help then to plant and reap crops. :) But at this point in time, three or four children in the future is enough for me. Having many children is not practical anymore and I would choose those who I can support as part of my family. What's the number of children you want in your family?
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 08
I have one sister five years older than me. There is a 12 year age gap between my two sons. They are 13 years and 17 months. I would love to have a daughter. I think having 3 or 4 children for me would be ideal. It wouldn't be practical or affordable for me to have anymore children than that. I like the movie called The Sound of Music and that family have 7 children which is lovely if rich and living in a large house.
@wrangel15 (1443)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I also prefer three to four children so that I can have enough time to spend with each as they grow. It's a joyful family if one have many children only if he can support all and provide the things they need: basic needs and time for them.
@robinemz (211)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
i would say 2 or 3 is just enough.
• United States
14 Nov 08
I've always wanted one boy and one girl. I figured that's enough for me and very ideal. At the present time, I have a girl and a granddaughter. I am the youngest of 11 children. All of my sisters and brothers have over 4 children. Some with all boys and some with all girls. I'm always babysitting my little nieces and nephews. Every last one of the grandchildren and great-grandchildren that's in the family I treat them as my own. That's enough for me. When you come from a family as large as mine there will be days that you want more than two and then there are other days when you don't long for any. I listen to my sister and brother-in-law with there 7 girls (all with different personalities) all with different needs and think to myself "Thank God, I didn't have anymore." What they go through with them is enough drama to last me a lifetime.
@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
I had four children when I was in my child bearing years.I thought it was enough for us to have a happy family life because life is hard.I want all of them to have a good life and especially a good education.I thought also it was the most practical number but when they started leaving us to start their own family I am not that happy anymore.I wish now I could have more than eight.
• United States
14 Nov 08
I have a 6 months old baby boy but I'm not sure if i want more babies for now. I'm really happy with him but somentimes I feel worry about the responsabilities. I'm not so sure about what is the ideal number of children but I just want to give my opinion.