First Love??????????
@smukherjee_on_line (578)
India
November 13, 2008 8:39pm CST
I have two questions in my mind.One is:-- Can anyone forget the first love?If you ask me the same question then I would say no.My second question is:-- I heard that the first love can't be successful.Is it true?According to me it is true.Because there is a reason.After the failure of the first love you can understand what is the importance of love.What you have done wrong.In your next step you will not so the same mistake and your future life will be more happier.I am true na???????
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18 responses
@kekexinfeng (1295)
• China
14 Nov 08
I think we can't forget the first love,because it is so deep,and every fiest is can't forgetfull,and most of first love is not success,and is a failure,then we learn how to love a people,how to get along with a people.
It is said"love is easy,but get along with is hard",and if we can't understand each other,though you love,but love will dispear after mistakes,so we should fiest understand each other,then love.
I hope everyone has his true love.
@smukherjee_on_line (578)
• India
14 Nov 08
Your thoughts are quit similar to me..Thank you for your reply...Hope so that everybody will get their true love.......
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
14 Nov 08
Some people have the luck of being with their first love forever. My Grandparents had that advantage. I agree that sometimes you have to fall out of love to learn what love is all about, it teaches you not to make the same mistakes, or how to appreciate the next person that comes along, but I beleive its possible to have a successful relationship with your first love...
I for one never had a first love. I guess you can say my first love is my husband and I hope we be together for ever... ;o)
@sekharg2007 (24)
•
15 Nov 08
Can anyone forget the first love?
Yes.because Will make love just for FUN.He/She must forget First love.k.
I heard that the first love cannot be successful.Is True?
False.true love is success.but correct decision is take lovers.k
@workinggurl (399)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
we can't forget the person of course because they have been a part of our life and one way or another contribute to our maturity when it comes to the love department, but as to the feelings yes definetely forget.
In most cases, first loves are not successful because it is like a trial and error phase for both of the couple, but I know some friends who married their first love and still living together up to now.
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
14 Nov 08
When I read the introduction post I thought here is another teenager and I was not far wrong as you are quite young. That is the reason first loves are not forgotten because they are new and fresh and something you may not have ever experienced. Your first love can last too if you want it too if the circumstances are right.
Unfortunately first loves also occur when you are young and inexperienced and in spite of it being wonderful, you do not know how to nurture and care for it. Do not worry you can love many times in your lifetime if you are receptive to it. There are many wonderful people out there.
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
14 Nov 08
First impression is the last impression so like this First Love is the Last Love.......
@adihindu (1922)
• India
14 Nov 08
It is right. We can't forget our first love because it is real love and its true for ever. I think so many of the first loves are successful. I know some people who are failed in first love but they won't forget their first love forever. But I saw some people who succeed in their first love live happily. If the first love is fail it is definitely be a good lesson for every one and didn't make any mistake in the future.
Happy to share your views. Happy myLotting.
@natsvelascotan (665)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
You'll never forget you First Love .. that is "real love" and not just those crushes .... I married my first love, so it's a proof that it can work out ... but it wasn't without experiences (good and bad .. together and apart) that enabled us to learn, mture and realize that we are really meant for each other.
@333tangtang (404)
• China
14 Nov 08
hi guy
yeah,,, i belive nobody will easy forget theris frist love.even that was happy or unhappy.but still remember them very well.
i have had never heard about the frist love can be successful,though...
but here my friend,she does!!!!!
she get marreid with her frist love finally.they been together for 4 years but break up...later both of she and her ex-bf find lovers.
but they still love each other.pass is pass.
10 years later,they walk together again.and get married.now they have a son and have a happy family.too
so do you think my friend she has her frist love successful?
;)
cheers!!
@tohoshinki (152)
• India
14 Nov 08
Of course you cant forget your first love because it's your first love and I agree with you that it teaches you what you have done wrong and you try not to make the same mistakes.
@qiongzheng0523 (55)
• China
14 Nov 08
Yes, first love give us deep impression, we can not forget that. Sometimes, first love is naive, it always happened when we do not know what is love. It also is a step of our life, everybody can not skip it. the successful chance of first love is low, do not pay much attention to it. If you get success, you are luck person.
@kolsnt87 (27)
• India
14 Nov 08
this would surely be one question that would be much closer to my heart
first of all yes the impact created by first love is everlasting and it would always be in the back of the mind,
well first love cant be successful is one thing which don't go with too much but there are cases of first love being a flirt and it acts as an experience for the next one,in fact that's 100% true the things wrongly done in first time can be overcome easily and second time it succeeds easily
in fact most of views your are 100% practical its a thing which happens day-in-day-out even this second some one would have experienced it
@auntpondie (172)
• United States
14 Nov 08
i dont think you ever forget your true love. they are the first ones you had thet "feeling" for. they will always have a special place in your heart. however, they are not in your life any longer for a reasson. we all grow up and realize that even though we will never have the same feeling as we did with that first love, we have a more mature feeling of love with someone who we know we can grow old with. i think you can fall in love several times during your life, but when you come across that one "true" love, you will know and thats when things fall into place for a person.
@robinemz (211)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
am so proud to say that my hubby was my first love and i was his too:) its true that you definitely wont forget your first love. success of a relationship will always depend upon the maturity of the people involved in the relationship so i would say it depends.. based from my personal experience, my hubby(boyfriend then) and i broke up after our first four year. after the breakup we both realized we really love and missed each other so we got back together after 3 years of parting.hahaha
@chennai_b07 (640)
• India
14 Nov 08
Can anyone forget the first love?: Most of the people used to say "NO." because it may be true to some extend
the first love can't be successful.Is it true?: This is not true 100%, this will become successful, provided if it blossemed at the right age,right cercumstances..
The 9th standard,10th standard, college love is not successful, because this is not at all a LOve, these are all called "Infactuations", the real love will blossemed only once if you settled in your life.n or else, it will continue to that extend, with very good support, with good knowledge, and also with a good habits.. without any problems.. etc..
And also making the mistakes in first love and rectify the same in the subsequent love is not a right phrase, this is not a examinations, that the first love is called the Revision Test, and the second love will become the "Final exam".
Love is always a love, but the situations and the circumstances in which it blossemed is the question. if it has been blossemed in right time with the right people, will become sustain for the life time..
I have seen
-- the love will complete with the marriage and successful for the past 10 years.. having 2 kids.
-- The love from college and marraiage without the blessings of their parrents and live for a year and then separated due to misunderstanding.. after having a kid
-- Love someone in the school days, and marry a another people at the right age, the both had live a happy life..
So, all types are their in the world, how we approach "Love" is the question..
Have a good day.
@arialgrs (130)
• Greece
14 Nov 08
?he first love actually is not forgotten..
When you are still unblemished and unpolluted, completely net of experiences, emotions or even 'scars' ,otherwise experience the love the first time. Experienced with all your passion, all your soul and with it your whole, because you did not have any prior experience that you have bequeathed reservations, so left 100%.
Inevitably trace in your soul. And especially if it is a favorite not hurt a relationship and not finished bad, then surely this love was written with indelible ink to your soul.
At least I have an incredibly fresh and beautiful, almost ideal memories of that first love, and believe that no other could not be changed to minimize the importance of in my life and my heart, but also to those who taught!