the feeling to be a father of first time
By MIKEDC
@MIKEDC (207)
China
November 14, 2008 1:14am CST
november 6th 2008.my daughter descented to my family.
that day my wife called me and informed me that she felt baby will born soon.so that she instructed me get back home and accompanied with her.no sooner i got this news than i pack up a few belongings and went home.i could not conceal my excitement.because that is my first time to be a father.
it was very fortunate because i had been came back in time.and certainly i got the opportunity to witness my baby's descent.upset,nervous ect surrouding me.
finally i knew i got a daughter and certainly both my with and my baby were good.it ran very smooth.as a man i would never smile to tear but i did.may be that is the tear of moved.
several days later i had to leave my wife and my baby.i must get back to work.i have been the leader to support my family.it is a extra pressure beyond doubt.but i pleasure to handle it.it was very hard to accept the fact that i must leave my daughter.sooner or later i will never allow my family leave me.only time will tells
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@suzzy3 (8341)
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14 Nov 08
How wonderful for you to be able to write down your feelings like this, some men in this country think feelings are going to make them look silly , mind you things are changing they don't have to look tough all the time.Any way I hope you and your family are very happy and make sure you don't miss to much with the little one , my son in law is always moaning about not seeing enough of the little ones but he has to work, but whenever he has got time off he spends it with the kids and my daughter and takes them out,or plays and messes around with them.Having a baby is a wonderful experience for everyone and I think sometimes this gets over looked in the world today so good for you, have fun and kiss your baby for me.x