When you meet someone really special...
By polaris714
@polaris714 (607)
Philippines
November 14, 2008 4:47am CST
What would you do if you are married (but not really happily because of incompatibilities) with no kids, and then you meet someone really special whom you really like, who seems to like you a lot in return, and who shares the same likes and dislikes as you do?
Would you allow yourself to be friends with him or her? Or would you just ignore the attraction because of guilt feelings?
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3 responses
@polaris714 (607)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Priorities, priorities. That's right. In anything one must always think of one's priorities.
@devref (240)
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14 Nov 08
if as you say you are incompatable then why are you still there in the first place?you are not doing any favours for either of you.get out of that relationship before you detroy both people and then think about other special people.don't walk out for this person walk away for yourself and if that person is still special then act on it then not before.
@polaris714 (607)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
I guess in a way you are right. Forcing oneself to live with someone he or she is incompatible with would be unfair to both parties. Still, there are the vows you made to each other. What a dilemma!
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
14 Nov 08
For me, a marriage is forever. When I said I do, i meant for life not just till a better person came around. So if i did happen to meet someone who i felt could be really special, i would stay miles away. No sense placing myself in the line of temptation and then regretting and blaming everyone else except me who had the power of doing something about it. I know its old fashioned but that's how i feel.
