when you feel alone..

Philippines
November 14, 2008 11:37pm CST
well, when you feel alone, what do you do? who are you thinking for? what come to your mind when you are alone? well, when i feel alone, i feel like i want to sleep, when in a day, nobody's talking to me, and no one feel's to talk to me, i want to just stay in my room, listen to the music's and put some thoughts to my phone or just in a sheet of paper. or, like this, make myself busy doing this or exploring the internet world. so that, i wont feel alone. i'm thinking for my family and my friends to talk to me, hoping that they misses me the way i misses them. haha. when i'm alone, the thing that comes to my mind is i have something wrong to myself that maybe they dont like. _
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21 responses
• India
16 Nov 08
When i feel alone i will think about me.Any mistakes i have or something may be done like this or some of the friends i miss
• India
16 Nov 08
Thank you
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
well, i do the same as you. happy mylotting!
@kunizzul (1066)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 08
Hi alleroid16...I like to sing when I'm alone. I will open my favorite songs aloud and sing along. =)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
yeah. i like that too. i often listen to music when i'm bored. i scream out loud which i know my siblings might get mad at me if i'm going to sream, but it's okay, they will understand me. haha. happy mylotting!
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
I always feel that way (being alone..) when I moved in to this new city. I always think of my family. I always look forward in seeing them again. Sometimes though I tried to divert the thought because I might not carry it and leave my job here hehehe.. so sometimes i think of something interesting -- thoughts disclosed.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
it`s hard to be far away for your love ones. i've experience that thing too. nothing to do. and just sleep and eat without music aswell. that makes my life bored for 3weeks of stay there. happy mylotting!
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I talk to my mom, or call a friend over for a chat, other things I do if I'm lonely is try to find a favorite activity to do to take my mind off the lonely feeling, for me it helps to do something I enjoy like drawing or watching TV.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
good for you that you could easily tlk to you om. my mm is always not here in our home. she's busy and i'm always alone in our home. doing stuffs.
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I hope I wont feel this way now. I am living alone as of the moment, but I know my family will be there if I need them. But there are times that I feel like I am all by myself, and nobody will be there for me. If I happen to feel this, I will just listen to very calm music, lay on bed and just cry. I just want to burst out that feeling. I let it all out. After a few hours, I feel good.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i've alreadyu experience that i cried for being alone with my problems that i can't take it anymore. i just cant help it. after i cried i make poem and thoughts. happy mylotting!
@mengrufa (239)
• China
16 Nov 08
If it is my concern, if no one say to me , I am unwilling to talk to anyone either, what is really let alone. I will switch off my phone, and them stay alone or go somewhere quiet alone , not to tell anyone with me, just alone. Because I think this is my personal time to think about something that happened or will happen, considering what was and will be the result or consequence.Gradually, I think you will find it is a right time for you to organize youselves.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i always say that i will just off my phone or leave my phone in house and go anywhere i want to go. and think of something i will do. happy mylotting!
• India
15 Nov 08
i watch tv i eat i go out with freinds n watch a movie or play a game i sleep i never think when i am alone, that is not an intellegent thing to do, it makes u feel more lonely :)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
yeah. i also do that, but sometimes i dont want to go out of our house instead i just want communicate with anybody without going out. happy mylotting!
• United States
15 Nov 08
I hate the feeling of being alone. Sure, when I'm mad or upset, I don't want anyone around. Just being alone on a good day though is awful. I usually blog, chat, or email. On the web, you never feel alone.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i hate being alone too. its bad to start a day alone. and nobodys talking to you. so i instead spend my time through internet so that i will not feel alone that much. happy mylotting!
@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
When I am in this mood, I just locked myself in my room and lay in my bed. Sometimes, I think of my college friends and all the stuff that we do before. I'd like to reminisce the happy memories that I have with them though sometimes it made me feel more alone so I tried not to think about the past. I read books, surf the net or listen to music just not to feel alone or to cope with it.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i do something the same way as you, but i do always that way, i misses them and that makes me feel alone. some i better sleep and maybe surfing the net as well, happy mylotting!@
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
15 Nov 08
I will begin to think about many things.. I will try to analyze my life and what I need to do to make things better for me. I use this time to pray and communicate with God about all of my desires, needs and wants. I am in tune with what I really need.. I use this time very wisely..
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
uh, i'm not that religious person, but i often to go to church every sundays. happy mylotting!@
15 Nov 08
I sleep or I listen Music
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i do the same as you. happy mylotting!
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
hi, alleroid. when i feel alone, i watch tv, read a book or just fiddle with my computer. i really have no problems being alone. it's my time to catch up with the things i want to do but couldn't because of busy schedule. take care and have a nice day!
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
sometimes i cant feel too much alone because i'm busy doing some things, but i really hate to be alone. happy mylotting!
@zhangfzoe (432)
• China
15 Nov 08
When I can't find some to go out for shoping or travelling, I feel alone. First, I feel upset. But later, I may do it alone. Or calm down, sleep, read a book, clean my room , and so on. I know it is very common to feel alone, but I have to get through it . Life, in its essence, is a long way .And most of the time , you have to rely on yourself to decide what you should do. If you can not learn how to spare the lonly time, it is a little sad.
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
i really want to be a booklover. but i dont know, but now im trying my self to love books. so that i could just read books in my past time and not to feel alone. happy mylotting!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
15 Nov 08
When I feel alone,I lay down in my bed,get into one of my sweet fantasies,cherish my being and flourish my feelings.I think only loneliness kills me.You find out the difference.
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
haha. i do that thing too. but afterwards i do that i always fell asleep. haha. happy mylotting.
@fedge098 (1330)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Well, I surf the internet whenever I am alone at home. I do myLot at least an hour or so. I watch tv series. I sleep. I reflect on things that I have done and thought. I think about the things that I failed on doing or accomplishing. I think about the things i still wanted to do to improve my life. I dream of unimaginable events that I want to become part of. I think of things I want to invent or build for me and my family. I think of my priorities in life, which goes first, which goes last. I think of many things whenever I am alone.
• China
15 Nov 08
when i feel alone,the first thing comes to my mind is my home,now i am leaving home and in a college which is so far from my home,especially when it is raining and cold and nobody beside me,then i am so homesick,at this time,i`d like to listen some musics or go to sleep. But sometimes i like the feeling of loneness,that feeling can make me be calm and have time to think many things,to think about my life.
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
well, also me, sometimes i prefer to be alone so that i can do things i want to do, so that nobody will disturb me, but sometimes, my boredom is killing me. i dont know what should i do. happy mylotting!
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
15 Nov 08
I am alone most of the time. When I am alone, I usually think of my husband who is faraway from me, thinking about my family, and trying to plan my life in the future. But there are times that I made myself busy like writing some articles, poems, diaries, surfing here on the internet and responding to a discussion to be able to express myself.
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
well, when i'm also alone, i'm thinking about my future, which i think what should i do so that i can succeed in my life. and also surfing the net when i cant do nothing. happy mylotting.!
• India
15 Nov 08
iTS BETTER TO DO MEDITATION IT WILL GIVE HAPPY TO OUR MIND AND BODY ALSO WHAT I AM DOING NOW
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
uh, maybe i'll do it. nyahaha.
@iamfine (740)
• China
15 Nov 08
I really don't like the feeling of being alone. When I am alone, I would try my best to avoid its lasting. If there's nobody talking to me for a whole day, I would feel terrible uncomfortable, then I would make a phone call, or surf the Internet to kill the feeling of loneliness. Sometimes when I am in good mood, I would go to the library, there you can always see a lot of people, and you don't feel alone when you are reading in such a situation... sometimes you can ever met new friends there...Wish you good luck
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
yeah, it's uncomfortable when nobody's talking to you. but i couldn't make a call to them, maybe they were busy doing something. instead i just surf the internet or just sleep to forget loneliness. :|:| happy mylotting
@annierose (21600)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Well, "some people" says that if you know how to use your extra time wisely, you will never feel alone. Maybe because of my likeness in reading books, I never feel alone. I can stay whole day inside my room just reading books, writing my thoughts or surfing the internet.If no one can talk to me in our house, it is alright, I not feel sad. I have my friends online and I can chat to them or email them.In addition with that, I can also surf the net and find online jobs. Through those things I make my day enjoyable and productive.
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
uh, i like books, but i dont like to read books. i dont know why, but now., i'm starting to love books. hehe. well, i also spend my time chatting with my friends, doing online jobs and surfing the net. but sometimes, im tired of doing that things, instead, i like to talk to someone because im really a talkative person. happy mylotting!