i dont know why my sister always give us problem

Philippines
November 15, 2008 12:40am CST
why there is what you called black sheep in the family? i remember not so long ago, when my sister is still 14 years old, she fell in love and become a mother at the young age. then i saw my mother cry.. i dont know what i have to feel on that time. i am 4 years younger than my sister. all i know is my mother is very hurt even she show how strong she is. Now, my sister is 31 years old and still she give problem to us, not only to my mother but also to me. She is an employee in the place where i also work as part of the admin, then one day she violates rule. then the adminitrators invite her to the office and they also invite me. althoug they dont give them action about what they done, i am shy about what happen.
2 responses
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Aw, that is hard. Specially if you are working in the same company plus the fact that you are younger than she is. There must be a reason why she is like this. Have you tried talking to her and asked if she has any problems.You MIGHT be able to help her, who knows?
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
i really dont know why she act like that, but i dont want to discuss to her what happen, i dont want to say a word that i am not suppose to say. but i fight with her. we are still sweet as we are. she is my only one sister. and i love her.
@bryanski (497)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Hmmm not really a new situation. Well, black sheeps do exist but don't coin the term occassionally for it is also a painful description to a family member. Your sister can have mistakes; to you and to the people around. I understood how you feel about her - annoyed and irritated I suppose. Did you talk to her lately about her actions? Well, maybe you as the better one, can try to persuade her to remove all the negatives from her. And you too, as a sister, don't dwell on her mistakes. It seems like her mistakes are still fresh on your mind. If she won't change for the better though after some time, you may just move on with your life and make yourself her inspiration.