My two best friends hate each other

Jealousy,insulting jokes,outbound anger,non-acceptability,material selfishness and many other reasons are the cause why sometimes best friends become enemies and you in the middle as their friend should avoid listening to both them.Better leave them until they compromise and forget and excuse each other from their inner heart.

I think you being in the middle might be a blessing in disguise. Instead of choosing sides ,I think you should try to be a bridge between the two. I suspect from the way you are talking that you don’t want to loose either one and as such let that be your motivation for what you must do. Firstly I think you should talk to each other separately. Let them know that there are both your friend and you love them dearly and you don’t want to have to choose .Tell them you would rather had them both as your friend but then the way they are behaving now you are thinking of alienating them both unless they can resolve their behavior .Don’t choose sides, let them know that the way the behaved was embarrassing and you cant believe that adults could behave in such a fashion and if they continue to treat you like that then you will not see them again until they have sorted out their differences. Secondly you may have to show that them that you are serious by not calling either of them or be seen in either ones company. Hopefully the time apart will give them both time to think. When you think they have both had sufficient time to think call them both up and tell them they must meet you somewhere and you should arrive there first and demand that they both apologize to you and each other or else they loose your friendship Maybe after they have both apologized then you can listen to both stories again and decide together and in a more amicable setting. Hopefully that should work

Hello Aero, Your situation is quite hard. But I think I experienced this once. When two of my best friend had a fight. Being in between friends you love is quite hard. But just divide your time and schedule enough time for the both of them. Other helphful tips have been posted already. Good luck

Look, seriously, it's really not your problem. You feeling uncomfortable in the situation has more to do with the kind of person you are -- not who or how they are. It's rude of your friends if they're expecting you to deal with it, and you should really get in there and tell 'em what's what. If friend A hates friend B, tell friend A you don't wanna hear about friend B, and vice versa. Don't read Hints from Heloise for secret tips on how to sit 'em down and hug it out. You don't have to be Dr. Phil here. Get mad at both of them. Let them know that it's bothering you. After all, it's YOU that it's affecting. They obviously couldn't care less that it's putting you in a tight situation. So, I say it's ultimatum time. Tell them to grow the $&@* up or just walk around with a binky so people know right away what babies they are.