Do you think women with high education background are hard to gain true love?
By pzygtt
@pzygtt (193)
China
November 15, 2008 4:01am CST
If someone asks me this question,i will answer NO without any hesitation, because we all know owning high education is good and enviable,in her own academic area, she is professional and educated, she herself will be proud of her achevements, she is successful and perfect in our eyes.
But look at those unmarried ladies, there are mainly high-educated girls others than some special situations, as the existent social fact, we have to admit that education does have some influence on the women's marriage and happiness.
Women own high education will bring pressure to their partners, if their own the same higher education, they may get along well, they have common talks.We are used to the view that women paly weak role in the family relationships, whih high education, she must have more advantage on income than her partner, try to think, how many men want his girl to pay for him?Of course there are some exceptions.Many men have male chauvinism, he wants his amour-propre to be met, we can't deny this fact.In conclusion, woman with high education is an unstable factor to the love and family, but take a close thought, you will find to some extent it's a little reasonable, my own opinion, though some extreme.
Whether the high education is a problem toward happiness or not for girls, no one can sum up totally, but this is really a thoughtful topic.
What do you think?
7 responses
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Well, there are some women who are with high education somehow hard to gain her love especially if she is very ambitious and if she was particulate in choosing guys.. There are also some women who can easily fall in love no matter what the background of the guy she don't care at all for as long as she love the guy.. We can't never really generalize this kind of topic since in everyone women has its own believe about love.. But I know that whether a women has a high education background or now, all of them wants to have a perfect guy.. Someone who can love them no matter how cruel the life is and someone who can they share their life.. All women wants to have a simple and romantic partner (I guess).. Well, I guess it is really up on how she believes about love and marriage.. Most of all it is up to the guy whether how sincere he is to the girl and if he accept what the girl believe..
@santau (223)
• United States
15 Nov 08
I think that women with higher education are as likely to find true love as any other woman out there; however, I believe that women with higher education spend more time on their schooling and jobs than they do searching for Mr. Right. They try to make careers for their life instead of finding partners. All the power to the woman who can make something great out of her life, but hopefully, she can take a step back when she needs to and try to perfect the relationships in her life. There is nothing more important in life than at least one relationship where you know the other person fully and they know everything about you, inside and out.
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@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
well its really true that it's kind of hard to look for a partner when you have achieve so much in your career. Men don't like to be overpowered by women. though its already accepted in the society that women could work and excel in their field of specialization and compete with men equally in many aspects of life. Still there is such thing as inner preference for men. Generally, they wanted a lady who are simple and nothing much of ambition but be a housewife and a mother.
In fairness, some men also prefer smart women. Those who wanted challenges and adventure along with love and respect.
Therefore, all is fair in love.. smart of dumb, pretty or ugly, rich or poor. All of us can really find true love in God's perfect time. Just wait and you will see...
God Bless!
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@cooldude_no1 (883)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
Hell yeah! At least we can have some thoughtful and intelligent conversation rather than with bimbos. Smart women turns me on.
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@willie_guo (110)
• China
15 Nov 08
women have both weapons to conquer men in society contact .one is her beauty ,the other is her wisdom .
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@nanny_chew (99)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
Yes..
Nowadays women are more educated than a man..
Therefore, we hardly find a man who can match us..
If u r a woman and with high education background, do you wish to get a husband that can match (same level or higher than u)with you?we will definitely wish that..
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