What will you do if you caught your boyfriend cheating on you?

He would definitly be out!! It don't matter how much YOU love someone, if they don't love you back then what's the point? he is just going to keep on hurting you. It might be a week from now or a year, but it will happen again! Like Tina Turner always said "what's love got to do with it"

I already did. I forgave him. But he did it again so I have to say good bye to him. I will not allow myself to get hurt over and over just coz I love him so much. I need to have self-respect too.

Hello pinky_laces. Welcome to mylot. If you know that he's a great pretender and liar, then leave him. It will really hurt, but you must think about yourself, too. It will be healed and gone for sure. You're still young and the right one will come at the right time. Believe in the power of prayers. God will provide. See you in other discussions

I will leave him, and I will remove myself from such a deceitful relationship!

I, as soon as I could, left my son's father for this reason when my son was 3 years old. I was told from a few friends that he was cheating on me while I was at work. I had asked him about it, more than once, and always told to get real and stop listening to crap and rumors like that. I believed him, until one day when I came home from work early. There was no denying my eyes, when I came home early and there he was in bed with a girl that was supposedly my best friend. Some friend, huh? Well, father or not, we were done. Friend or not, we were done. That was it, he lied plenty of times right to me and it was so devastating. I was the fool for believing him, but I didn't have the proof until then. I've never talked to her again, and not really him either unless need be. Guess what? That's how they started their little affair, online and chatting through email. I'll tell you what, most people will tell you that it's nothing, but in my book, if correspondence between two people is concerning, then be concerned and pay attention. Remember though, it takes 2 to tango. Unless of course the other person is lied to. Just be observant and pay more attention and don't be dupped. If they are talking indecent chatter, whether it's email, phone, in person, your radar should definitely be alert, because one thing leads to another. If really loves and respects you and he's being totally honest that there is nothing going on, then he's going to stop that right away and not let that kind of nonsence come between you two.

Dump him without any hesitation, even it may hurt much for years. He can never be trusted any more. Do not believe his crap, he can betray you once, so the next time he will do the same thing.

Hi, pinky_laces. Welcome to myLot. This is understandably a very hurtful experience. I wish for you that you will respect yourself enough to know that you deserve to have someone who cares more for you than this.

If I were in your shoes I would definitely have felt the same. Love they say can make you weird and crazy in the eyes of others because you tend to go out of control of things that you should do but you arent because you depend on what you feel instead using heart and brain at the same time. It is really hard for you breaking up with him then him explaining and everything but then think of it you have read their emails and whatever is in those messages only you can judge if he really committed a sin to you. If he ever has, discard the feelings and take some time to think. You have better things to gain than to have someone who would play around you. You deserve better treatment. Someone who is honest and trustworthy.