when you love someone... set him/her free? or fight for him/her?

If the person that I love, loved me back I will never let him go.. Off course by mean I would fight for my love for him... If the person did not love me back then I'll set him free.. It's his life he can choose whoever he want to love.. If the situation is not going well with our love and let him go is the best option then no choice, I have to let him go for goodness. I've been in that situation where our love is banned due to racist things from his parent.. he is chinese and his parents only want him to marry chinese women.. We fight for our love for almost 3 years and then came to situation when my parents dont want me to marry that man too because of his parents did not treat me well.. So for the sake of happiness in both side we have to let our love go... It's very sad and made me broken heart so bad.. Fortunately live goes on well.. He found a chinese women he love and they got married and live happily ever after (I think so!) and I found my husband that I love and so far we live happily too...(hopefully ever after)

I think what is usually best for our love ones. I can set it free when I know I am not deserving of her love. I can fight for her when I think we can show them that we love each other or I love her very much or prove that they are wrong! Have a nice day to you!

For me, it depends. You could fight for the love if it's worth fighting for, but if it's not, why do it? I'd just cry and let the wounds heal by time. "Set him free. If he comes back, he's yours." It's always true for me. Good day!

Setting him/her free doesn't necessarily mean letting him go. It could mean...(A.)Giving him a life outside the relationship or (B.) Don't be over-protective,make sure he's still breathing. If you think of it as literally letting him go its also up to you. It also depends on the situation. If you are really in love with him/her, ofcourse you will fight for that love and you will do anything just to get it/get it back. But if its impossible for you to be together and love isn't there anymore,then that's the time you should set him/her free. Good luck!