Liking someone when you already have a bf?

Hello i have experience it too patriarch, i even told it to my bf, but he actually get the idea wrongly... Once i say i like him... it's not actually love... it's just something what was called friend admiration... and anyway, i know my limitation, which he doesn't even bother to see. Yes I was wrong of telling him that thing cause i know it really hurts... and believe me, as i say that thing to him, the feeling is totaly gone, i just like the fact that he gets jealous whenever i am being link with another guy, because it shows me more how much he loves me...

yes it could happen that you will like someone aside from your bf specially when this particular person did something special for you and that things were not done by your current partner, moreover, when he has the sterling qualities you look for in a partner where your bf don't have. As for me it's normal to admire someone who is not your bf but if you felt beyond admiration... then the red light is on! You should check your feelings really good. And then weigh things who is in your heart and mind. I had experience such thing too, i entertain the guy and be friend with him... tried to get to know him too as a friend. I told him the truth that i have a boyfriend but i like him as well. So its like we had friendly dates for quite sometime without telling my bf about it. I know its quite unfair to my boyfriend but i really thought i have to do this... if not i will wonder all my life and have what ifs... After several dates, i told the guy that i have to take sometime off with myself alone to weigh things. I know i have to chose already... so i went out for a vacation alone and reflect on my feelings. Now i have decided to stay with my bf and not the guy i thought i like so much... I am happy now with the one i chose... I already told everything about that incident .. i was really afraid to confess at first but i decided that should tell him everything first before hearing it from someone else and be ready for the consequences of my actions. I crossed my fingers with the inevitable... and that is he will get mad at me and leave me for good. But he never did that...he was sad about it but he accepted me and understand. He loves me despite of everything. And i love him even more. All i could say, don't do what i did because maybe you will be with no one if your bf will not be as understanding as mine is. Have a nice time in mylot! God Bless.

No I haven't experienced something like that. I am not that kind of girl who would be easily in love with someone, so that if I am in love with someone and get involved with that person, I would be very truthful and faithful, so I would never like someone else. But I think that, the situation is possible, because no one can control the emotion, especially for a girl, which life controlled with emotion. I think the best thing is to stay logical with their decision. People can make some mistake, and sometimes a mistake could not be fixed.