Is it wrong to see your friend nude?
By vijay1wdv
@vijay1wdv (357)
India
November 15, 2008 11:26am CST
Guys and Girls,
I have a girl of the same age as mine as my friend and she has very small boobs. I doubt if there is any. She seems to be a little concerned about it and i have heard her freinds(girls) talking to her regarding this once. They just tease her if i had heard it right. So, do you think it will right on my part as a boy/man to discuss with her regarding this issue and try to console her and bring her out of the complex? Or will she mistake me for starting such a discussion with her? I dont want to loose her frindship. Though she is not very close with me, we know each other for a year. How would you have reacted to if you were her?
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7 responses
@AlucardChristian (152)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
It would still be awkward for me if I was either of you two.
It's better if confronted her and say sorry. I think that might mend things up.
@yonghweefoo (17)
• Singapore
16 Nov 08
It might sound weird coming from a guy. She'll probably mature and look a lot different in a few years..
@PinayPrincess (554)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
well, as a girl, I think its not good to talk about this kind of topic to a girl. Except if you really know each other in and out. I mean, you are THISCLOSE. :) But if it happens that she started the topic, then thats the time you can open up :)
@iamfine (740)
• China
16 Nov 08
My opinion is, you pretent that you don't notice about her boobs, unless you become her boy friend. If you talk to her about this, she would feel even more embrass, and maybe get angry. Because no matter how you console her, your opinion is still:"You boobs are too small". So as a boy, as a friend, pretend that you didn't notice this, you didn't care about this, that would make her feel better....Just my opinion.
@marq88 (58)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
discussing that kind of private matter is not an issue, either the persons involve in the tete-a-tete are in the same or opposite sexes. what truly matters is the way you open up the discussion. since that is somewhat of a sensitive discussion, you must be cautious on choosing your words. remember that your friend is a girl. so if you are already in that situation, be respectful as much as you can. there is nothing wrong on discussing things, whatever the topic may be. discussions and forums make us aware of something we are unaware of and teach us to realize on how to deal with of it. for as long as you discuss it in a proper way, everything will be proper.
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@cypresstwist (35)
• Romania
16 Nov 08
In her place, I would get embarrassed. If I were you, i would let it go. Seriously.
If you only know eachother for a year let it go.
@IchigoLover (177)
• Singapore
15 Nov 08
If i were you,i would go up to her and tell her that don't mind them,they are just joking with you..Even if yours are small,i also don't mind,i would gladly be your good friend which you can talk to all the times.
If you like her,that the best.You can just tell her that even if yours are small,i still like you and won't have any changes of feelings..
good luck to you!
that all i have to say
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