Tell me what should i do...

@haqita (122)
Malaysia
November 15, 2008 11:39am CST
i was once a good student in my school..passing homeworks on time, gained good marks in tests and exams...but now, when i'm in my present college, i'm changing from time to time...i don't know why...i've been a loner...and i've tried to be tougher..but i can't...help me please...
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@keir3000 (296)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
College is different from high school. You gain more friends if you reach 2nd yr. By the way, are year are you now? Then things will be better as long as you have more friends to talk with.
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@keir3000 (296)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I don't get it. What do you mean that we have the same situation but different problem?
@haqita (122)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
i'm in the first year and only have been here for just 5 month time...i'll try to gain more friends.. maybe you are right...we've encounter the same situation but different problem..do you get it??^_^ thnx for helping..
• Singapore
15 Nov 08
hey...try to know more people,try to hang out with them...like this will helps.. in school,when you are alone,try to find someone which you know and talk to that person...being tougher isn't just by saying it...in mental you must be able to withstand upset and many others things... that all i have to say good luck to you! :]
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@haqita (122)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
yeah...i must make up my mental strength..thnx 4 your advice...hope to be improved in 4 weeks time...^_^..thnx..
@worthy (2413)
• India
15 Nov 08
once you come to collge, many things change. see its not a very big problem, just dont stress yourself too much. its okay if you score a lil less than school, cause college studies are definately tougher. but if you are really not happy, then maybe you should first work on your frnds circle. make new frnds, get friendly with the college atmosphere, only then you will be happy enough to concentrate on studies. i was a loner at school.. but when i came to college i made new friends. the college was not the one i dreamed of, and so it was necessary for me to distract myself from the sadness i felt for not getting into a college of my choice... guess what... friendship really helped!.. i used to score above 90% at school.. whereas in college i score around 80%.. but then its fine u know.. although i am aiming for higher marks this time. you just don't get too overburdened. man isn't a machine. one cannot perform well continuously.. its just like in cricket even the best of batsmen get out of form for a while. just keep your cool and things would be fine. relax!
@haqita (122)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
okay..i get it..actually, i'm also entering the college that i never dreamed of..and i am so frust to live in the hostel and go to study i my present college...maybe i'll work with the friends thing first...wish me luck...^_^
@haqita (122)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
forgot to say thnx...thank you..^_^
@worthy (2413)
• India
16 Nov 08
yep.. that shouldwork.. nd be happy.. no matter what.. this college might actually prove to be the best in you, it is you who can make the best of your life, not the college.. all the best!..