How do you know if you have good friends?

November 15, 2008 1:45pm CST
How would I know if the person that I know is really my friend? if I can trust them?
1 response
• United States
15 Nov 08
This is a tough question & it would definitely take time to figure out. A true friend would be there when you need them, keep a secret if you told them, etc. I would say the only way to really know is the next time you need them, are they there? Or have you told them something no one else knows, but somehow someone else found out? This obviously means your "friend" told someone. Or if you are upset, do they appear to be genuinely concerned. Friendship takes time. Make sure you aren't too trusting in the begining. And just look for the signs that they may not be true. Even possibly, see what their other friends or family think about them..
15 Nov 08
Yeah mate i see what you saying, because before i really had loads of friends but den i just sort of a started losing them and not making any new 1z, so at the end im only left with 2 friends which i can really trust.
• United States
16 Nov 08
i feel it's almost better to have few true friends, then loads of fake ones. have you ever heard of the country song "Find Out Who Your Friends Are" by Tracy Lawrence? If you haven't, you should really listen to it!