Would you like to keep staying at home?
By mengrufa
@mengrufa (239)
China
November 16, 2008 4:33am CST
I am a introverted man. I like stay alone thinking things that happen. when I like to talk to someone, I just ask few of them to go with me and talk, for I dislike that there are too many people making noise. When I am in trouble , I want it to come to a direct solution and don't want to put it in complex. Staying at home and keeping alone can make me calm down to think and organize my work orderly, I like being alone, for I think it pure our mind,and calm down to deal with things that taking place around.
What about you? my lotters.
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18 responses
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
16 Nov 08
I'm a introverted person too. When I went to school, I didn't talk with my friends and avoided them. But when I went to university for study, I opened my mind and I always condescending with friends. My friends like playing with me and they said that I'm an easy person to make friends.
@inder86 (565)
• Gibraltar
16 Nov 08
i am also reserve kind . but i never care about sounds around me . i manage to put my brain in some kind of work. and about word orderly i don't use it much in my daily routine . i love messing around and finding lost things. i never make my brain to calm down because i love doing work.
i can't sit free or without work.
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@mengrufa (239)
• China
16 Nov 08
you guy are an active kind guy! And you can ajust youselves well, that is good, and I wonder how you can do that. Every time I want to neglect the sounds around, but every time I fail.
So, I think you are a lucky guy, but I think it is better for you not to make youselves always busy.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
It's actually too creepy for it's too extreme.
I also do like to stay at home, but not for the same reasons as you have. I have no 'fears' of the outside. I just like to stay at home because it's comfortable and relaxing. Who'd not want to be home right? except I guess those who have home-problems. Otherwise, it's great to be at home. But of course you need to get out once in a while too to live you life, to work, to socialize.
=)
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@arthurSung (59)
• China
16 Nov 08
It depends. Sometimes i prefer staying alone to play with friends for i think it is nonsense to do things with them. Sometimes, however, i always can not stay at home for even one seconds. In most case, i would like going out to find something new because i think it is a good way to know the world and the society. In my opinion, it is necessary to keep pace with the society for the society changes so rapidly. i often go out with my friends on weekends for playing sports, taking part in some funny activities and so on. Just as the old saying goes, two heads are always better than one. You can learn many things from your friends when you are playing with your friends and your friends can do the same thing from you. Playing with others can also help you to be more extroverted and happy.
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@calyxus (825)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
I do like to stay at home at times. But man, not all the time! LOL
It is nice to be with ourselves for a while, to think, relax, and plan for
something to do. However, we also need to interact with other people every
now and then.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
uh, i dont want to be alone always, but sometimes i prefer to be alone than with somebody. i like to stay at home always, as long that we have an internet connection and my PC is okay. i can last long in home. but i often like to go out of our home, because sometimes, my boredom is killing me and i want to hang out with my friends and family.
happy mylotting!:)
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@mengrufa (239)
• China
16 Nov 08
so you must be a always happy and a somewhat a outgoing man, I admire you that you can go out with your family, but I , no. Because I am now far away from my hometown, friends here are all busy doing their job , so, I have to spend most of the time in a place. Thanks.
May you happy everyday.
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@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
17 Nov 08
I am a stay at home mom. I do not think that I would stay at home very long in life. Yes, being at home I do earn some money with PC. I feel if we stay at home for long, we may become too outdated after some years may not feel ourselves fit to survive.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
Yup, I like being alone too; I enjoy the peace and quiet. I've very lonely habits like reading and watching TV, but I don't feel lonely - I just like my own company. I do interact with people - it's the nature of my work; but on weekends, evenings and off-days, I would rather stay at home.
@maccer50 (39)
• United States
17 Nov 08
Hi Mengrufa,
I used to dislike staying home because I was easily bored by how calm it is here. Now that I am older and have had to stay home for almost 2 years, I have grown used to it. Now it seems that when I am out in a crowd or where there are too many cars or people, I get nervous and feel a little sick. I like staying home now, and I live in the country. I used to work in the city and now I only go there to shop or see a movie. I am not always alone though, as I am a girlscout leader, I teach Sunday school, and I substitute teach in the public schools when I am well enough. I prefer to work half days, as it makes me tired. I have never been introverted, but instead, I am a big ham. I agree with you, though, that too much sound is a bad thing. Luckily for me, I am 11 years older than you and I am a little hard of hearing now. Too many years of hard rock music.
@23uday (2997)
• India
17 Nov 08
Hi frnds,
would you like to keep staying at home?
I like to stay at home when i starting the mylot i will be in the home alone
or stay at home.one month back i have taken internet connection now i want to
stay at home only.Some times i will go to the outside when my frnds come to my
house i will go out with them.
Sometimes i want to stay at home only i don't want to go outside.
@abdiecekaz (9)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 08
Hum...we have a same thing with our self, I'm an introvert too. But I don't always staying at home to calming down myself and I think stay alone won't finish a problem. I guess u just go away and made your own world with full of very you,ignoring everything that make you uncomfortable. I ever been like this too. and now I'm trying to open to another, and now I feel much easier than before. may be u can try it too,nothing to lose ^_^!
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Yes, I like being alone and staying at home is like a total freedom for me. I am also a homebody and extremely dislike social gathering because it bores me to no end. But I have closest friends whom I maintained contact and go out with them. I only join groups when I am comfortable with the company and the environment. I am easily bored especially to a group of people who have no interesting topics to talk about and nothing in common.
I hate many people, noise and never ending talks with useless things made me unproductive, so I'd rather stay at home and find something useful like reading and writing. I always write to overcome boredom, in my part, it is better this way than going out to outrageous places with boring groups. But I am extra sweet and caring to my friends, every weekend we had excursions and outing, which I find very amusing. Home for me is like a paradise, I kept my room clean all the time because it is where I can find peace of mind and contentment.
@luwenbin (31)
• China
16 Nov 08
I don't like at home for the long time,i would like to jion in different activities with others. such as hold the parties. play the basketball, and out of traving and so on, satying at home will make me boring .So i like to live with others all the time
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@kayree2002 (259)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I love being by myself too. Whenever I have people over after a period of time I just want to be by myself, but it seems too rude just to kick them out. When I was younger i hated going or doing anything by myself, but then I forced my self to try and tough it out alone, since I'm an only child, and now it's my preference. But my dream job is to establish myself so that I can have the freedom to come and go as I please on my job and to mostly work from home. I even shop for clothes online and try to make money online because to me it's just convenient.
@maggii2687 (79)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
I love staying at home, though i love socializing and all.. its just when your at home and all you need is there. I actually a laid back person that mostly spends and enjoy hours watching TV series all night and sometimes up to lunch the next morning nonstop. But when the times comes that I run out of DVD's I switch to books. I have tons of that I have read, but will never get tired of reading it.
But then when invitation for a party or a night out with friends, I wouldn't say no.. Hello!! its party people.. socialize and enjoy!!
@gauthami (137)
• New Zealand
17 Nov 08
Awww..i dont want to stay home alone...but sometimes when i m seriously thinking or worried about something i want to be alone for 1 hr or more..but i always want to go out of my home with frds or family..i used to alone before but my mom told me not to be alone and mix up with them..from that day onwards i never got alone till now...if my internet is ok i can stay at home all the time so that i can spend time on that..
@bmk188 (55)
• United States
17 Nov 08
Because of Multiple Sclerosis and other health problems I don't get out of the house much, but I love it when I do. I like to be alone at times, but not all the time. I am usually not alone much. My hubby is also my caregiver so he is always here. My children and grandson spend a great deal of time with me. I love having my family around me.
Periods of alone time are good for the reasons you mentioned. We all need to have time to ourselves and relax. It, also, depends on my mood whether I want to be alone or around people.