girls, when are we ever going to stop shopping!?
By aisha_rica
@aisha_rica (23)
Philippines
November 16, 2008 5:17am CST
the very first time i got my paycheck, the very first thing i did was shop. worst of it i guess was, i do not just shop for one item but from head to toe! ohoh.. yah, real bad, its been almost 3 years of been employed and now i have finally laid low from shopping, for the first time this month i did not spend any of my money to go the mall and shop. this has been a 3 month struggle for me to discipline myself not to actually spend something in the mall. and i did it!!! its like a breath of fresh air! we have the power, we can do it. before, eveyrtime i get my paycheck, i always tell myself i shoudl get something to reward my hard work but you know what i realized that a reward could be a lot of things, not just new clothes, shoes and etc.
5 responses
@aisha_rica (23)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
ohoh.. that is a problem! sell your old ones perhaps?...i have that prob now too.. and that is one of the reasons why i am laying low..
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I have a great trick to keep me from over shopping. I will check out something that I really fall for and then I will stop myself and ask myself "Is this a want or a need?" Usually it's just a want. Also I am trying to down size the amount of stuff I have in the house so I don't buy a lot of stuff.
I allow myself to go out and shop for clothes a couple of times a year. This year I am allowing myself more money to get clothing...I always shop the bargain rack so I get more for my money and my favorite department store will mark stuff down by 90% at times...and this includes shoes so I can get tons of stuff for my money. If it isn't on sale I really stop and think about whether I can really use the item or not. Usually it works out that I put it back.
The best thing I learned about self control is the whether it's a want or a need. It's amazing how much stuff you put back when you realize that it is a want and not a need.
@aisha_rica (23)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
i salute you! you are very responsible. yes, being able to convince ourselves sometimes goes a long way.
@TheDevil (840)
• India
17 Nov 08
Never ....Its our Birthright
I love to shop ....no matter how many clothes i buy , there always one dress that i still want to buy so badly ....but since now I am low on my finances i just go for window shopping ...and whenever I find some interesting that i ought to buy , I always tell myself " there's something better for me " or "this won't look good on me "...Although I regret it later but somehow it works out
@aisha_rica (23)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
that is a good way of doing it. im happy for you. i have been doing that lately too.. i tell myself that there will be more of nice things to buy if i have the money, so i told myself, get the money first and spend it later..
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 08
i know tell me about it! i shop all the time, especially when i know that i can afford it haha. i so need to stop pronto coz i think it's about time i start saving up seriously. next time if you wanna buy something try asking yourself why would you want to make other people richer and yourself poorer? i'm sure we can resist this temptation to shop, it just takes great determination and discipline
@aisha_rica (23)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
yah! i mean we are girls.. and well.. shopping is natural! its our comfort zone! haha.. we love to look good and feel good. it would not hurt to get a new stuff once in a while.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
16 Nov 08
Yea tell me about it. I'm a shop a holic! But I haven't been shopping in almost 6 months only just for groceries now n that's it. I don't have the money to be spending anymore. When I shop I spend wayyy to much money then I dont have enough for bills etc. So my bills and stuff comes first then what money I do have left Ill use on myself or save it for next month when the next bills our due. I wish we weren't soo addicted to shoppin then I would be rich! Wish I was rich then i'd shop everyday all day long! lol!
@aisha_rica (23)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
that if very good of you.. discipline is all there is too it. payables should go first. savings are next. i want to be rich too!!!!