what do i do?

United States
November 16, 2008 10:17am CST
I am pregnant. i have two kids already i have a 2 year old and a 5 month old i am 4 months pregnant i dont no what to do .if i will be able to do it by myself .I need help here what do i do ?
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4 responses
• United States
1 Dec 08
you will e fine !!!! i just had a baby 11 weeks ago,it is sary having that many little ones around i know, if you need a break from the 2 year old put him in daycare a few days not everyday , but you will have your hands FULL!!!! girl you needa getthem tubs tied but let me tell youthat is a painful surgury!!!!!GOOD LUCK HONEY
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
23 Nov 08
You must have got pregnant very soon after your second baby was born. It will be lovely for you because you will have three children close in age that will probably play together really nicely. The early days might be tiring but I am sure you will manage really well. I suggest that you get your 2 year old as mature as possible. Like he or she could get better at walking and riding on a buggy board. You could have your new baby when he or she is born and your second child in a double pushchair and your first child could ride on a buggy board connected to it. You might like to get your 2 year old to be potty trained as early as possible. He or she could be encouraged to be as helpful as possible. In this pregnancy you will need some rest and that must be challenging to get. Good luck.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
16 Nov 08
Sure you can do it. A lot of people have done it before you. i had an 18 month old when my seond was born then the third was born just one year later then along 18 months late comes number 4. this was at a time when few people used disposable diapers too. we used cloth ones and washed them every day in a wringer washer. You just have to get organized. Get the 2 year old out of diapers. get rid of those disposable ones for him/her and she/he will train faster. Start teaching your 2 year old to dress him/herself. They can you know. my graddaughter did. I was visisting and had to watch her oone day. i didn't know that she couldn't dress herself so I just gave her clothes and she put them on. When her mom got home she told me she could't dress her self. Start teaching the 2 year old to clean up the toys when finished. 2 year olds can do more than you think they can. If you expect it they can do it.
@GhostCat (313)
• United States
18 Nov 08
Megan, Good Luck, this will be difficult for you I am sure, but as they suggested above, that if you are able to get organized your will not find it nearly as difficult as it seems today. Of course, we are assuming that you are just overwhelmed with the idea of 3 children under 3 years of age. If you have not help at home, as in you are a single mother or husband/partner is either in the military and deployed, a truck driver, or has some other job with requires lengthy absences then perhaps you are talking about an entirely entirely different situation. There are a variety of other problems that could be causing you concerns about your ability to contend with the challenges of raising 3 small children. If you are a single mother there can and probably is a monetary problem, and even if you are not a single mother there may still be monetary problems, if your of your husband have been laid off or your are one of the hundreds of thousands of people who got caught up in these load debacles and have lost your home and have ended up living in a one one bed room apartment or the basement or parents or siblings. These are all different problems which could make your situation overwhelming. Please let us know. We are all pulling for you no matter what the situation. Blessings to you all