what do i do?

United States
November 16, 2008 10:41am CST
my life is so messed up. my husband left us and i feel so bad because i kids want to see here dad and he wont pick up the phone i dont no what to say to my kids when they ask where they dad is. what should i tell them . i dont want them to hate him but i dont want to be the one they hate?
1 response
@ComEng (69)
• Philippines
16 Nov 08
I think that will depend on how you'll approach your kids.If they are young of age, just tell them that their father are not in and will not be able to be with them but give them a reason that they will easily understand. If your kids are older enough, that would be easier.As much as possible, try to make them understand the real situation of your family and and not make them expect that their dad will be coming back if that will not be the case.But for whatever reason why your husband left, try to fixed it up, not only for the kids but also for your family.