Will i ever get over it? Should I?

Hey, wake up. That man is not for you and what you need to do is just let him go, like in the The Lord of the Ring, when finally Frodo and Sam got to the mountain of the Evil, Sam ueged Frodo to let go the Ring, coz it's the ring of all evil. So that is yr ex. What have you gotten to lose. He is a burden that causes your pain, not happiness. So many great men out there and you can grap a fabulous one for yourself, no need to complain that you are not a guy. Best luck.

Hello that guy is not for you. Wake up girl. Boys like that should be take for granted. Move on their lot of boys out there. Who deserve you.

Are you saying that you are still going out with the same guy? From the time you found out he was cheating on you, you should've left him. It's true that you will always feel insecure with other women while you are with him. Trust is the main issue here. Can you go on with a relationship with this guy knowing that he can cheat behind your back anytime? Since you said you lost a lot of weight, why not make good use of it. You'll get over him.. in fact you will find someone more worth your while dear!

guys have the same insecurities sometimes too. it will take time for you to learn to love yourself and let the past go. i've been in the same situation and when i finally found the man of my dreams.. all my worries, insecurites, doubts just started to disapper. you must love yourself in order for someone else to love you as well. find the good points about you. weight is something that can change. but if you have a good heart, or a great personality.. thats more important.