I want a daughter

United States
November 16, 2008 6:07pm CST
i have two little boys and i love them so much . i am pregnant again and i want a daughter so bad.i mean i will be happy along as it healthy. but i will be so upset if it not a girl why do i want a daughter so bad .
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10 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I don't know why you want one so badly. I raised four boys and now am raising one girl. I'd take the boys over a girl any day!
• United States
17 Nov 08
That's funny- my brother has 4 girls and a boy and thanks God everyday that they weren't all girls- I think that's funny. He loves them all with everything he has- but the girls he says are a challegne- but my sister-in-law says it's just the boyfriend thing that bothers him. They are all really good kids, he has seen to that but when a boyfriend pops into the picture- you can actually see his blood pressure climb ( I think it is the funnies thing ever).
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
17 Nov 08
It isn't the boyfriend thing that bugs me that much even though my daughter is a teenager. it's the mess! She alone makes more of a mess in my house than all four boys put together! I recently told my youngest son how much easier it was with him and his brothers, he just rolled his eyes and said "tell me about it". He has a boy and a girl
• Indonesia
26 Nov 08
You should happy have been pregnant, and have two boys, But human never see enough. is natural that you want a daughter. if the future baby is not a girl. You should go to the doctor to make program having a girl baby. I wonder can you, take care all your baby?
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
24 Nov 08
How many weeks pregnant are you? I have a thirteen year old son and an eighteen month old son. At 16 weeks in my last pregnancy I went for a gender scan hoping I was having a girl but they said a boy. So like you I have two boys and dream about having a girl. I really want to have a daughter. I could do her hair, dress her in pretty clothes and buy her dolls. Good luck with your pregnancy and I hope that your baby is a girl. If not remember you could have another pregnancy and get a girl next time. I know a lady with three boys and she is pregnant with a girl. She has had three scans to check the gender. She didn't believe it at first.
• Japan
25 Nov 08
Hi I had 3 boys before I had my daughter. It really is a different world. I love my boys and they are helping through a tough time (hubby is in hospital) but my daughter really lightens the day for me. When I was pregnant with my 3rd son I asked the doctor about the gender. When he said boy I was dissappointed but once he was born he was so lovely and cuddly that I don't know why I felt dissappointed. Good luck with your pregnancy and birth, hope all goes well. Kids are wonderful no matter the gender!! Take care Jackie
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I understand that you badly want a daughter but don't feel upset in case you'll have a son again. Learn to be thankful for what God has given and be contented. Don't worry I'll pray you'll have a daughter so that you will become more happy. Have a wonderful pregnancy!
• India
25 Nov 08
Hello my dear MeganJones Ji, You are greatest among all greats to seek daughter. When I had concieved for the first time, we wished for a daughter and we had kept our religious fast to full-fill my desire. We love daughters, but God full-filled our desire after two sons. So you will get dayughter. Tell me some symtoms, do you like eating 'Sweet' or 'Sourish'. Are you still very active. Normally 'dullness' is felt all the time during son's pregrency, but it is not Universal. I wish you all the best and would Pray Almighty to full-fill your desire. have a great time.
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
I always like to have sons and daughters, they both have different characteristics. I guess, daughters are much closer to mothers, and they will just talk about anything. But, since you are pregnant, and I guess there is no choice for you to pick whether it's a boy or a girl, so just let it be. Otherwise, what you think may affect the baby's emotion too. I'm pregnant now too, I'm having a baby boy. No matter it's a baby boy or baby girl, it's still my lovely baby, I'll just accept it happily. ^_^
• United States
17 Nov 08
I think its normal for all women to want a girl at some point- I wanted a daughter but I married a man whose family hasn't had a girl born in 12 generations so I knew that was not going to happen. Which is great! I have two boys and they are wonderful, I wouldn't trade them for anything. You may want to talk with your doctor about how you're feeling because if you do have another wonderful son- and it upsets you that could lead to a bout with post-partum depression which is serious. Enjoy what God gives you and know that is exactly what you are suppose to have. Good luck to you and take care. Congrats on the baby!
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
21 Nov 08
I have always wanted to have a baby boy as my first child. I had a girl but she's boyish. LOL Anyways, Congratulations on your 3rd baby. I hope your wish for a baby girl will come true.
• United States
17 Nov 08
I do not have kids yet, but I have planned how I want to have my family. I want to have 2 kids on my own, then I hope to adopt one or two. If I get two boys, I will be adopting a girl for sure. Have you thought about adoption?