Do women prefer men who speak more?

India
November 16, 2008 10:18pm CST
Women generally love to talk about anything, they just love to talk. they cannot keep quiet. men generally prefer to do their work silently, but women want to interact more verbally. i have seen from my on experience women prefer the company of those men who talk more and respond to all their queries. how do mylotters feel? is it an isolated case as i had observed or is it a universal phenomenon?
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@gkchetty (24)
• India
17 Nov 08
I feel women generally prefer men who talk more (need not be sensible talk). Most men like to talk sense or nothing at all. Now given the senario, how do men still make it a possiblity to speak to women whom they wish to assiciate with (talk, laugh, etc). I guess both sexes have the fear of rejection by the opposite, i.e. the topic did not interest the other. Now may I request the beautiful ladies here to contribute.
• India
19 Nov 08
In furthering this discussion I would like to ask the ladies about what do you feel about a quiet man who is not related.Do you think him as a mysterious person not to be open to,and If you wish to talk to him, and just because he seems so closed, do you feel confused whether to start a conversation or to be on the safer side, wait for the first move from the other side. Oh! This blog is sounding very "TACTICLE" hope the ladies excuse.
• India
17 Nov 08
your reply is sensible. women like to just chat where as most men have other things in their mind. generally he is more reserved and wont give out too soon. i do not know how beautiful ladies are replying to this post here. hope there are few.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I personally prefer for my husband to actually hold a conversation with me rather than an occassional grunt as a response. I believe that, in general, women want more verbal communication from men. We are actually interested in how your day went at work, what you would like to eat, and so on. It drives me crazy when I ask for my husband's opinion and he gives me a vague answer that ultimately leaves the decision up to me.
• India
17 Nov 08
that pretty interesting and nice. i agree men are more stingy when it comes to verbal communications and they do it in abundance only in their professional areana.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
18 Nov 08
Professional, as well as social. Have you ever noticed how men will talk it up with the guys, but clam up with his significant other?
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
base on some books i read, men are really born with less talks and actually less sensitive than women, we women should understand that...I myself really prefer someone i love to talk with since I know that when the two of you get older, its the only thing you can do together. But, if ever i fell inlove with one that is not really a talker...his being that should never be an issue anymore, besides you do love someone expecting him to change afterwards. hehehe...hhhmmm LOVE!!!
• India
17 Nov 08
i liked that thought on when getting older, its the only thing we can do together.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 08
Well... I think it is just about the preferences, but personally I would like a partner who can communicate, not only talking but also listening. The problem with men are usually with listening. We don't need someone to hear us, we want someone who can sympathize with our feeling and that's better than someone who talks back for everything we said.
• India
17 Nov 08
yes, everybody likes someone who communicates. but how about a chatterbox? nobody wants them, unless they are also that.
• India
17 Nov 08
Women do not like men working. They would prefer to have men sitting aroudn and talking to them. They do not even want yo to read the newspaper. They feel neglected if you do not talk to them. If a woman is sitting quietly, then some thig is qrong somewhere . Women can never sit quietly. Men love their solitude.
• India
17 Nov 08
you are absolutely right.
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
22 Jul 09
For me,i don't like the men are talk alot because i am a talker, so i don't like whom alike me.Not only men, i don't like friends talk alot too.
• India
23 Jul 09
thank you for the comments
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Well I guess that is generally true. Seldom do I see women who are not that talkative.
• India
17 Nov 08
its in their nature to talk. probably they love to share it with everyone. that makes them talk more. that could be the reason those men who know how to talk win the hearts of lovely women....
• India
23 Nov 08
I prefer men who shut their mouth. I think you are generalizing a bit there. I have seen men who gossip and women who gossip. I have seen women who like silence and men with few words. Talking too much or too less depends on the individual, not on the gender. I am a quiet person and I value silence, and I am a woman. So I prefer a man who keeps his mouth shut. Cheers and happy mylotting
• India
19 Nov 08
yeh you are right i have heard in television interview.A psychartist told that women get attracted to men only by the way they talk rather than their physical appearance.he said women get attracted to men mostly because they like the way they talk to them...
@katran (585)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I think on the whole women do like to talk more, but I don't think that necessarily means they prefer men who speak more. Women seem to get their talking fixes among their girl friends, in my experience. It also seems like a lot of women are attracted to quiet men, because they are quite capable of doing enough talking for both parties, and quiet men are supposedly more "mysterious", haha. ;P Personally, I like to at least have the other person be able to hold up a conversation and not just give monosyllabic answers, but I do think it is possible for men to be overly talkative, and I think in general women seem to prefer men who talk too little to those who talk too much.
• India
17 Nov 08
this is quite interesting. you have a point in what you said.