How do yuu deal with the complaint

Hello sunny friend. It is human to complain, dear sunny. It has been a very difficult case to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I am glad that your mother-in-law is nice and kind to your family though she grumbles a little for your laziness. But it is ok to complain as mentioned above that it is human. You know, sunny, it is in fact an art of dealing with the relationship between you both. It is takes time to learn it well to a satisfactory extent. I am sure that you will be able to learn it well based on your knowledge and experience. I trust you, sunny.

It seems that you are lazy,so I think you should change yourself at first....she is kind,so,do your work carefully

Mother in laws are always doing stuff around their kids houses. No matter what their spouses do, its never up to their standards. If you are really aren't lazy and you feel like you dont need her coming over and doing these things, then tell her you appreciate her trying to help, but you are the mother/father of the household and you can handle doing these things on your own. If you dont feel comfortable telling her that then just let her do some chores for you, saves you some time from doing it yourself. Just tell her that you didnt ask for her help, so it would be much appreciated if she would keep her comments to herself.

i think if she seems like she does not want to be there maybe she should not be there .let her know you can take care of your own house.

what a pity you are supposed to be a lazy daughter-in-law in her eyes.however i m nont sure how to give you any striking advice . by the way,do you really think that you are too lazy a lady to have family trivials done perfectly ?if truly so ,maybe you deserve to be reproachful by your considerate mother-in-law. take care of your family members ,ensure to remember that you and your hubby are the backbones for now in family

I really don't know, when it comes the family matter. Everyone has their own version of the story to argue about. And it is really hard to determine who are right, and who are the villain. Do the best you can, and talk to her flat out honestly.