How's your family?

China
November 17, 2008 4:57am CST
I feel at home is not good, because my father is always away from home, so little communication with him, and often quarrel with my father. I do not know how to do, always added a few wotds, began to quarrel. I do not want this kind of life.
10 responses
@rajnayar (33)
• India
17 Nov 08
arguements,quarrels all these are part of life...i think at every home there might be small or big quarrels...you might be sad as your father is away from you...you might be getting irritated ..but think for a while ..why is your father away from you....????? he is away from you because he is busy earning something for you...whatever he is doing it is ultimately for you only....so whenever you get angry on him just think this and calm yourself....if you will try to understand him he will be very happy.. have a good day..!!! happy mylotting...!!!!
• China
18 Nov 08
Yes.As a child he is not around me, i have been living in the family home, only to come back once every year, he even did not come back. I was born so his gas.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
just pray to God that everything would be okey wih the family, if you can talk to them both in a nice way to talk things over and ended up better results, that would be fine. I am a single parent and raised my children alone with all the hardships and worries but with the faith in God everything is quite better. Am living with my three children plus a son in law and a grand daughter. There are times that misunderstanding can't be avoided but later it would be patched up, thru each other's cooperation and concern for the family
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
19 Nov 08
My family is OK. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad. Sometimes we all get along well, sometimes we fight like crazy people. I think we still are normal. I dont really know.
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
19 Nov 08
hi i know its hard when you feel this way maybe you can talk to him and tell him how you feel.will he listen to you?i know i never have liked a lot of argueing either it can be so depressing and i love peace.it makes it really hard to talk when the person will not listen i hope this is not your case.if no one will listen at home find some one else to talk to that will make you feel better and the best of luck to you friend.stay out of trouble and know that people care about you.
• India
27 Nov 08
we family of 3 my son keeps us busy with his noty things...we hardly fight ,we need understanding to be connected wid each other.
• India
19 Nov 08
my family is very good i always feel very heappy with my family....specialy i always enjoying my sis and after that my mom and dady......
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
hi dont assume that grass is always greener at the other side ... thank god that you have a home and a father , there are so many other people who dont have a home or father quarrel is a small matter and it is just a difference of opinion. it happens in all relationship not only between you and your father .. I do not know your type of quarrel but what is wrong with agreeing to what he says without answering back to him ... it does not mean that you have to actually do it, you just need to agree only cheers
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
it's normal that couples have an argument or fight at home, as long as they dont hurt physically each other... in our case, a lot of times, my husband and i have arguments... i would say both of us have hot tempers... but as much as possible we do have bondings with our kids. i do explain to my kids our situations why there was an argument or if ever i got mad at them, i do explain why. so far, they do understand. so far, i would say that my family is ok, although there are also a lot of misunderstandings... coz i guess what matters most, is what we do afterwards...
• India
17 Nov 08
It depends on the situation.Sometimes I prefer stay at home and sometimes I prefer to stay outside the home.More or less my home atmosphere is ok, not too good or not too bad.............
@samwong (34)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
i love to be at home......it make me feel warm and comfort. a good shelter for me.... The time i feel miserable, home will be the first place that i want to be at