Do you believe you can find love in the internet?

Japan
November 17, 2008 5:22am CST
Today, most things are getting instant. Instant coffee, instant noodles, instant breakfast and so on including finding love in the internet. Do you think it is possible to find true in the internet? Like you can substitute it with the traditional way of courtship. Let me know what you think.
9 responses
• United States
17 Nov 08
i think some people are comfortable with that level of insecurity, not knowing who your really talking to. me id never do it,, i get enough crap from guys on the street
• Japan
17 Nov 08
LOL..ur funny and i agree with you... we receive so much b**S**T on street or in the train how much more from the scams from dating sites..
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
In my own opinion it is possible to find true love in the internet but not in an instant. I don't believe in finding true love through internet nor in text or in phone but I believe that in a long run if the two people who met through the internet decided to meet and start friendship, courtship then love could start from that point. Let me make myself clearer. In a case where a man finds a woman then they decided to meet, time will determine if they are for each other. When love begins, the relationship they started in the internet should fade. Because true love can be measured by the time you spent with your partner and how much you care and value one another in reality, not by technology.
• Japan
17 Nov 08
you're saying the internet could be a good start but still two need to be together..i think so too..it's really impossible to be lovers over the net and all that's working is the imagination.
• India
17 Nov 08
Yes why not. Until you find whether its fake or not. But I think once you become friends itself you have to meet up. Otherwise later it will put you on risk. Happy lotting.
• Japan
17 Nov 08
it is possible but what about if he's miles away how can you meet up?
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
hi grace, YES i believe that we can find love in the internet. love is not like an instant coffee or instant noodles as some may think of. it is nurtured and taken cared of. one true love is anywhere all you have to do is to look around and search. as you search open your heart so that someone can come in. i myself found my bf in a christian chat room. it started with one hi and hellow. now were on our 9th month going 10th hopefully he can visit me here soon. by the way he is 4000+ miles away from me but then everyday we talk, we plan and we show our love and care to each other. try your luck. be blessed
• Japan
17 Nov 08
wow! that is so cool.... i wish you all the best. Wait how to start with the conversation?
@arialgrs (130)
• Greece
17 Nov 08
You might discover someone on the internet, but true love comes from face to face getting to know one another over time ..
• Japan
17 Nov 08
i agree with you. I mean you can be very connecting through words but the face to face, skin to skin, aura meets aura is still different..might as well difficult during adjustments or feelings of awkwardness...u agree with me?
• India
17 Nov 08
I belive on destiny And according to me we can easily find love on internet if we spend some time on the internet
• Japan
17 Nov 08
that would be a lot of work..it's even a whole lot of work over face to face...
• United States
17 Nov 08
Love on the internet is in no way "instant". It's the same as anything else, it's just a different way of meeting and communicating.
@redchase (347)
17 Nov 08
yeah falling in love over the internet is totally possible assuming both people are being honest. its so easy to just change up who you are because you have the security of a screen and so many miles in between. everything starts off somewhere so whos to say that the only way that love can come is from face to face interaction. i mean yeah it helps but sometimes having the screen there lets you let go of you inhibitions, you know, you can be more honest. about two years this guy started messaging me on myspace and just through us talking on there i started to like him so much. we eventually got to the phone calls and stuff and even talking about being involved in a relationship. i couldnt get my mind off of him, but the relationship thing never worked out because he was afraid or something he said. and thats cool, we're still friends now and he is a blessing in my life. we're now both happy with our significant others and such. its good stuff. similarly another guy started messaging me on myspace and we did the same thing but it did develop into a relationship because i liked him enough and we met before we started talking about getting together. it didnt work out, it was actually horrible but whatever. i think if it hadnt been for the internet i wouldnt have dated at all. lol. its sad but true. eventually my love came to me from a casual friendship, and the rest is history. so yeah i think love can be found on the internet if you have that sort of luck.
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
i think we can,, that's where my bestfriend and her husband met,,,, and they are very happy with their life right now... happy mylotting
• Japan
17 Nov 08
wow! good for them.. but after they met...do you think the adjustment was not hard?